is it fun to have sex?

Question

thats all i wanna know. my bf wants to BAD, i`ll only waste my virginity if its worth it, and its fun..

Answer 1

Keep your virginity girl. You have tons of time and probably tons of bf's coming your way. The first time or two, it hurts and you bleed a lot. There is nothing fun about that.

Answer 2

Good grief ! Don't waste your virginity even if it IS fun. You have to take a lot of other things into consideration too. The big obvious ones being risk of pregnancy STDs and AIDS. Even if he claims he's clean, the only way to know for sure is to get tested. And even if you use birth control, that can fail - my sister in law has two of her three kids from birth control failing! And yeah, it can be fun, with the right person, under the right circumstances. (If he's pressuring you, he's NOT the right person.) The first three times hurt like hell for me. There are plenty of other ways to have sexual pleasure without intercourse. Keep in mind that oral sex can spread disease too. I didn't know that when I was younger. If he loves you, he can wait. My boyfriend (now husband) and I waited until we were out of high school just in case we ended up with a baby, plus a few more months because I wasn't ready. It's worth waithing until you're both sure you want it. After 8 years of experience I can also tell you it's not ALWAYS fun either, so seriously ask yourself if you think you want to do it, and if so, why. Don't please don't do it just to please him. That's not a good reason.

Answer 3

It's fun, but only for about three minutes in your case. Your first time, you're probably not going to enjoy it all that much, either, because it hurts.

Don't ever "waste" your virginity. Wait until there's someone out there who *deserves* your virginity.

Until then, there's a chance that you and your bf will do it, and he'll move on to another girl once the challenge that WAS you is over.

Answer 4

It is fun but it can be extremely damaging to you as well. Sex is NOT just a physical act. Any guy can masturbate inside a girl. That is NOT sex. . . that is abuse. Sex is an emotional, psychological, and physical act. You cannot have sex without being intimately involved with another person. Itimacy is an emotional act first. Guys say I love you to get sex. Girls give sex to hear I love you. The reality is they want sex . . . PERIOD. If you won't give it to them and they are determined they'll go somewhere else and damage some other girl.

You are TOTALLY RIGHT that you will WASTE your virginity on him. If he doesn't have enough respect for you to wait until you are married, he is playing you for all he's worth. The ONLY gift you can give to your future husband that no one else can give is your virginity.

Understand this. . . as you yourself say "my bf want to BAD" and that's what you'll get BAD sex. You WON'T enjoy it and you WILL regret it. You will be left high and dry and he will just put a notch on his belt showing you were a conquest of his. It AIN'T WORTH IT!!!

Answer 5

Hang on to your virginity. You shouldn't do something just because someone else wants you too.... Look at it this way if he wanted to cut your arm off would you. Probably not huh. If you do things just because "it MIGHT be fun" or "he wanted me too' or "i thought he'd love me more" or " I thought this would solve or problems". Then your going to regret it soon or later and i"m afraid sooner than later. What would happen if you got pregnant after that one time? Would you want to spend the rest of your life raising a child or having a child with a guy you may or may not (most likely not) be with for the rest of your life. Out of curiosity how old are you??? Good Luck and please hang on to your virginity..it's a precious thing and once it's gone there is NO getting it back.

Answer 6

I waited until I was married to have sex. And then after it was all over I remember thinking "Now what was the big deal??" I think the most important thing you need to remember is that it is not just about the act of giving yourself to another person, you have to be responsible enough to know that you two have the potential to create life between you. Also expect your feelings for him and all other boyfriends to change. Having sex changes your whole dating outlook in kind of a strange way. Yoiu start looking more for guys you would like to have do you instead of guys who are nice and good company, so watch out for that.

So the moral of the story is, wait if you are not ready. But if you feel ready, make sure he wraps it up.

Answer 7

Honestly, yes it is if you have the right partner and right relationship. However I recommend it within an adult relationship or at an older more appropriate age. I lost my virginity at a young age and it was senseless... I ended up losing it with my best guy friend when I really didn't want to. Although I got over it I still regret that it wasn't in a more meaningful way. For what it is worth... Wait for the right guy, right moment, and hopefully at an older age. It is nothing to rush into and it is nothing to do just because everyone else is or just to do it just because.

Answer 8

NO please keep your virginity for now
i am a guy myself and when i first done it with ma GF it was not fun for either of us at all
You will get hurt and you will bleed so much its not worth it at all at this stage you will still have many BF to come and at some time you will definitely feel you really wanna do it without posting a question on yahoo :)

Answer 9

An orgasm is fun. You don't need a partner for that.

If you have sex at a young age (and I'm assuming you are young), you run the risk of developing cervical cancer. You can die from that as soon as 5 years after you have sex.

You can get aides and die at an early age.

You can get pregnant.

You can get an STD (veneral disease).

So, honestly, sex is fun if your partner is any good, but it has severe repercussions. Most boy friends aren't very good. You will end up disappointed and missing your virginity and suffering possible repercussions.

Answer 10

Dont do it. Save yourself for marriage its the right thing to do and you will be so happy you waited. If hes pressuring by saying things like " if you really loved me you'd do it" hes just not worth it. If he doesnt respect your decision then move on.Theres a ton of guys out in this world. Make sure you save yourself for the right person because your virginity is a very special thing and you shouldnt just give it up like that. Premarital sex is wrong. Plus if you do it you will regret it in the long run. Trust me its definitely an important thing for you. You would be both saving you and him from future unexpected things that could change your lives forever.

Answer 11

Yea its fun when your underage!Until you end up on yahoo answers like these other girls asking if we think that they are pregnent?Stop and think?Are you ready for a child?If the answer is no,then don't have sex.Ask yourself,has he been with anyone else,and if so has he been tested for STD's?If you are unsure,don't have sex.Are you on any type of birth control,so that you have more than condoms to protect you?If you answer no,then don't have sex.
If you are willing to give up your virginity because sex is fun,you don't need to have sex.
You wanna do somthing fun go bowling.Is safer and will last longer,trust me.