i find that i'm very confident in a group of people of all different age-groups...but when im at college with all young people, i seem to withdraw into myself. i keep wondering why this is...maybe it's because young people are more beautiful so I feel inferior to my friends or maybe it's the level of conversation- it just doesn't suit me. what should I do? and what could be the reasons behind my behaviour?
2007-01-05 11:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by hollym 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to believe in yourself. I feel akward around people all the time. If you make others out to be better than you, you will naturally shy away feeling you're just wierd or not good enough. You have to think of yourself as any other person, saying what you feel/what's on your mind. Nobody is perfect. Everyone is just trying to enjoy themselves. You must believe in yourself. You have every right to be yourself. If you are around mature people, they should not give you a hard time if you are trying to open up. You're being too hard on yourself. Simply let go of the worrying, and begin to freely express who you are.
2007-01-05 12:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Superior, Love urself don't feel urself low...You are the best personality just keep it up..and practise for the effective conversation.. looks are not important to make ur good personality, ur speech and intelligence is enough for that...good luck!
2007-01-05 19:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence is attainable, work on it. I am sure you are more knowledgeable than the college kids, and probably look just as good. Be secure in yourself, and others will also.
2007-01-05 19:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens, in our own circle of friends and family we r comfortable and confident but when u r with others u find yourself comparing with others and feel insecure. don't worry you will get over it .stop comparing with others .
2007-01-05 22:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...well...i feel thr is noprb..but nly prb is tht ki u compare urself wid others...n u urself judge...tht urnt good...basically it all depends the way v look at thngs yaar..so pls change the way u look at thngs n see the result...take care
2007-01-06 01:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can look for more suitable commonalities to share the common ground.
2007-01-05 20:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so srry, but i have problems of my own. srry i couldnt answer u.
2007-01-05 19:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by iluvnickjonas96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋