We've only been trying for 2 years, and I know so many of you have tried for so much longer, but i'm so tired of the questions from people and the lack of results and the lack of sex drive and the extreme costs involved. We're taking a break, but I'm just so bummed about everything right now. Is anyone else sufferring from the no baby blues? How do you get over it?
2007-01-05 11:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by goosehds 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Health Canada in this past year has approved a brand new method to get pregnant with. It is a cervical cap for conception. You use the cap in the privacy of your home and I personally know of three couples that have conceived using it...maybe you should try it...best wishes
2007-01-05 11:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by sydney_ontario 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm interior an identical boat. we've been attempting a sprint over a three hundred and sixty 5 days and that i ultimately had to take a destroy until now I went loopy. A month later, i began out having sever pains in my abdomen. Come to make certain I actually have a endometria cyst on my ovary that would desire to be complicating issues... so i'm entering into to have it bumped off in some weeks. i'm hoping you would be consulting a doctor to work out what the challenge is. in case you may not get pregnant, and additionally you do not elect to undertake, i don't comprehend what different recommendations are obtainable?
2016-10-30 02:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am but I would just stop trying. My thing is I think I don't ovulate. I had test done and everything is great but still i have no bun in the oven. As the days going on I have stop trying and just living a day of whenever my husband and I decide to be intimate then great. I don't think about it because the less stress you have the better. I think if it is meant to be then when it happens you will be so happy that tears of joy are going to come out. Try to into another place, somewhere like a happy place where the baby blues can't get in. Good Luck
2007-01-05 12:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Precious1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have children and since I'm not married yet I haven't been trying, but I have an inspirational story. A good friend of mine was married for 7 years and desperately tried to have a child. Doctor's told her it was unlikely due to health complications. After the first 5 years she and her husband resigned themselves to being childless. During year 7 she became pregnant all of a sudden. It was a very difficult pregnancy. She was very sick and on bed rest for 6 of the 7 months she was pregnant. But after 6 months of miserable bed rest and discomfort, she had a baby girl. The child is 2 now. Every time I visit them I'm so happy for them, because I watched the sadness and struggle she and her husband went through. I know this wont change your situation but maybe it will give you hope. If it happened for her it could happen for you. Best wishes.
2007-01-05 12:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had those too. We tried for well over 18 months. Then we found out hubby had been overexposed to a chemical at work. We thought we couldn't have any. We gave up. Started having sex for the pleasure again. Stopped worrying about ovulation and all that. The next month we were pregnant. I think if you work to hard at it nothing happens. Enjoy yourself and your partner again. It will happen when it is meant to.
2007-01-05 11:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me i have been there....the only thing i wanted in the world was to get pregnant after my son that was only 2 months old passed away in june of 2005....i was on the shot and it wore off in august of 05 and every month since that we had tried to get pregnant....each month i would think i was having all these pregnancy symptoms and go out and by test for them just to come back negative and to start my period....in october 06 i told my husband to forget it...we rarely had sex and when we did all we would talk about it i hope it happened this time and that was all that was on our minds....i gave up...i couldnt handle every month being let down...i tried focusing on other things...it took me a couple of months so from like august is when i said i give up but at the time for my period i would be like omg am i pregnant....but i gave up and not even 2 months later i am 8wks pregnant....dont stress ur self about it and it will happen why do ppl say it will happen when u give up i just thought about that and that helped me to think about other things and not worry about it as much and then bammm it happened give it time im sure u'll be pregnant soon
2007-01-05 15:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did fertility treatments for 3 years and none of them worked - when the Dr told me i should try ivf next i knew i wasnt ready so i told my husband we should have a break from trying and go on a trip overseas.
two weeks before i went overseas after 4 years of trying i fell pregnant naturally and am now 32 weeks
fertility probs definately get you down and is suprises me still how common they are - i think you should just tell people the truth and they will stop asking.
be positive though - after 4 years of trying and being on clomid and injections i couldnt believe it just happened. take time away with you hubby/partner and forget trying to concieve for a little while.
2007-01-05 14:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Boo Boo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a cousin that had the same problem. The fertility treatments were very costly so she ended up giving up after four treatments. When she finally came to the conclusion that she may never have a child of her own and moved on with life, she became pregnant within months....on her own....naturally. Be patient and let all the treatments and worry go for awhile....you may also be blessed.
2007-01-05 11:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your struggles, "trying" can put a lot of pressure and strain. But maybe that's the case...too much pressure/strain/worry. Why not get back to the fun of life...and love...get away - short weekend trip alone or having fun. Don't let every time be about "trying" ...just make it about each other....and let God handle it.
If you have made sure that you aren't having the fertility issues, they could be His...and that's usually an easy fix.
2007-01-05 11:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. Seriously. Thats how I got pregnant. Just give up, decide you're going to try again later, and focus on doing something with your life.
Then you find sex enjoyable again, and before you know it.. BAM you're pregnant.
It honestly works best when you're not actively trying. I've heard so very many stories of women who tried for years, gave up, and got busy and content with life, either working or adoption, and next thing you know theyre feeling crappy and sick and dont know why.
2007-01-05 11:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋