I have been married for 6 mth and I hava strong sex drive, I love my wife but she gets tired of having sex everiday and for long periods of time. I don't whant to cheat on her so I play with miself. Would this affedt my bed performance withing time? And is it normal?
2007-01-05 11:05:46 · 21 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its alright if you do that. Have her watch you, might turn her on.
Best of Luck!
2007-01-05 11:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on two things. How long in between is it with your wife? And if you ever got to a point you prefer it over having sex with your wife. That would not be normal, or a least not good for your relationship.
What will effect your bed performance is not the frequency as much as age. As we get older we men can retain our desire for sex but not be able to do it as often. So if you find that in having sex with your wife you lack the desire you need just cut back on the playing with yourself. Masturbation is done by most everyone but it is very much a personal thing as to how you feel about it.
2007-01-05 11:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! I'm not married, but I'm in a relationship in exactly the same position as you (I have high sex drive, gf doesn't... well, her's isn't as high, anyway).
I tried not touching myself for 6 weeks (I stupidly wanted to 'preserve' myself for her, and got so uncomfortable I ended up having a one night stand just to make myself feel a bit less congested!
DON'T go down this route, anyone. EVER!
2007-01-05 11:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing with yourself, I don't guess if you like that there is anything wrong with it, better than cheating. But, that can cause you go crazy over a long period of time. They call a person that makes that a habit , "A jack off idiot".
2007-01-05 11:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's VERY normal. It's very rare that two people have very similar sex drive and the one with the higher sex drive may look for pleasure elsewhere. I commend you for not cheating while taking care of your needs.
2007-01-05 11:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by jussagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal.My husband and I have been married for 10 months and he plays with himself and I dont mind.The only time I would mind is if I was in the mood and he decided to beat off,but he doesn't so he can beat off all day and I dont care.
2007-01-05 11:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by amanda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal I've been married 4 years and still do it.
2007-01-05 11:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by SexyLove910 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a guy as long as you still make love to your wife and don't get hooked into porn.
2007-01-05 11:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by mizzgrizz01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ them all. My fiance has a low sex drive and we have it like once a month. I have to to keep myself sane! I'm still young!lol
2007-01-05 11:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by snowball24life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont affect you and is normal and after 15 yrs youll be the only one playing whith it you might take 5yrs
2007-01-05 11:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal... Everyone does it. Don't worry, you won't grow hair on your palms, and your thing won't fall off from doing that.
2007-01-05 11:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋