my BEST friend cuts herslf I am VERY close to her what should i do, she also is planning to kill herself in like two weeks or something.
2007-01-05 11:03:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shes asking for help! Because you are her friend and because you care, you need to tell. Her parents probably already know shes cutting, but maybe hearing it from a friend will make it more real to them. I think that your friend is just going through some things that she needs to work out. All you can do is get someone involved who can do something about this and be there for her. Your friend probably is suffering from depression along with self esteem/ self hate issues. Just be a friend to her, sounds like she really needs it.
Good luck to both of you, she is lucky to have a friend to talk to and who cares about her.
2007-01-05 11:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well if your her BEST friend i suggest you do something about it quick! you say she is planning to kill herself in two weeks or so..it could be sooner. I say, you have a sit with her and talk about whats going wrong.
2007-01-05 11:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be there for her. Remember those yellow ribbon cards they used to give out in middle school? You better get to calling that phone number because suicide is a scary thing.
I will guarantee you that you will feel horrible if you do not stop her when you know this is going on.
Save her.
2007-01-05 11:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious??? if you're not, shame on you for joking around like this.
If you are serious - this is not the time for the whole "being loyal to your friend" thing. You need to tell your parents and have the adults deal with this very serious issue.
2007-01-05 11:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by JTTW9500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she needs help and sec if she really wanted to kill herself she wouldnt tell u she seems like she is crying out too u for some help so u need to talk to an adult that u trust and seek help for her
2007-01-05 11:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Engineering Tech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly let her parents know, your parents know let all the people that can help her know!!! It won't matter if she gets mad at you i promise you if she is a real best friend she will understand. Just don't keep thinking "oh she's gonna be so mad at me!" and get to someone and tell them she needs help!!! good lucc
2007-01-05 11:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go directly to your mom and dad and tell them, make them listen to you..have them call your friends parents and make them listen. She may be mad at you for a while, but she needs serious help and you have to think would you rather her be mad at you and alive or for her to die and you to know that you could have done something to prevent it.
2007-01-05 11:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun but she is on drugs. Hunny people who cut themselves are on drugs she is gonna commit suciside sryy tell her to stop if u dont wanna lose and friend and she will lose her life
2007-01-05 11:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jayde 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to notify someone! Her parents and her counselor at school would be ideal. She needs help. And even if she gets mad at you, wouldn't it be worth saving her life?
Please get help for her immediately. Do not wait!
2007-01-05 11:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Allison 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone and get her some help as soon as possible.
2007-01-05 11:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋