I got my appartment with my ex 8 years ago we had a baby 5 years we seperated two years ago ive working really hard on keeping the apartment so if he comes back but in me mean time im depressed i dont feel it home any more its a beutiful appartment but im kind of exited if my son will have his own room and may be i need something new and different
2007-01-05 11:00:22 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You THINK?
2007-01-05 11:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stated that you are keeping the apartment so if he comes back. This is not a good reason for keeping this apartment. Because, what if he doesn't come back. You are holding on to it hoping he will return. That's the reason you are feeling depress. It doesn't feel like home anymore because your situation has changed. It's been a year if you feel you are not going to be okay living in this apartment find another one. You may just be afraid of really moving on. But you can do it. One day at a time. One step at a time. If you know what is depressing you and you can do something about it then you should. Sometimes we can't change our situation but this is one you can. Don't put your life on hold. If you don't see that this situation will soon mend itself then let it go. You will be alright. Keep working hard and work at the things you and your son needs. Take care, and for the next few weeks really think things over.
2007-01-05 19:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He ain't coming back, hon, so you too should move on. A wise friend once told the that the only thing good reheated is stuffed cabbage. Get your life back on track, maybe more training so you can get an even better job, then when you feel more confident, start hunting for a guy worthy of you. Be wise how you spend your money, get a stash together, and maybe in time you'll be able to buy your own house or condo. Life is what you make of it, and the worst thing to wait around for something you already secretly know ain't gonna happen.... Good luck, sweetie
2007-01-05 19:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the apartment because you want it, not because of "if he comes back". As long as you live like that, you are not living at all. Think about yourself and your child; What do you consider is best for the two of you? Moving or staying?
If the child's father has visitation rights, he will know how to get in touch with you, for you must let him know where you go.
2007-01-05 19:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by David G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are waiting on him to come back to u, holding on to something that may never happen. u seek change in your life, with him back in your life, but it's been 2 years, and still he is gone. as long as u wait on him to return, u can never move into the future, or into a new relationship. let go of the past, and make a new future for yourself. let him go....
2007-01-05 19:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're stuck.....kinda like having perpetual hic-cups.
He's not coming back.....you and your son need to make a new life for yourselves.
Your son needs to see his Mother as a strong motivated woman....not a mopey woman who is treading water.....move out and begin again.
2007-01-05 19:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋