Marriage is boring looking for a change . not looking for marriage just some fun.....don't know where to start ... any ideas
2007-01-05 10:59:58 · 31 answers · asked by Ricky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave your wife because you don't deserve her.
2007-01-05 11:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Juniata P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well either get a divorce or find your fun another way. The idea in marriage is to be only with your spouse. Is she not giving you any? If thats the case talk to her and work on the issue.
2007-01-05 19:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by bob K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I dont know get a divorce you ***!!!!Come on if your that bored then why dont you leave.....I bet I know you want to have your cake and eat it to.God I just dont understand men and if you think she wont find oh believe me she will someway somehow she will.I caught my husband talking to a girl one time inapropriately and to say the least he still regrets it.I now have all his passwords and I know where he is at ALL times,untill I can trust him again this is the norm.I mean if you think your wife isn't meeting your needs then talk to her this is not hard.If you want to spice up the love life buy the ******* kamasutra but for christ's sake dont cheat on her.If your to scared to leave cause being married has just become routine for you then you need to seriously sit down and consider your options would your rather have your wife who loves you and takes care of you or just random people for the rest of your life who dont give two shits.Also you having an affair doesn't hurt just your wife it hurts the woman you cheat on to,because she isn't enough to be the main woman in your life your wife is.Do you really want to damage an innocent woman like that?Could you live with yourself after that?
2007-01-05 19:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by amanda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swing situations can be fun if your husband is interested. Alternatively you can check out Yahoo Pool - there's a lot of cybering going on over there and it isn't technically cheating (some think of it as an interactive dildo). I have a friend who cybers on line and then provides her husband the transcripts. She get's hot and bothered with the stranger - he gets excited by the text and they have a good night in bed.
This might be a good time to start breaking out the sex toys and role playing ideas with the spouse too.
Peace!
2007-01-05 19:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better think about what if your wife finds out, what are you going to tell her your marriage is boring. Just looking for fun you wife finds out and she may be looking for a Divorce Lawyer, you better think twice if a one stand is worth losing your wife. Better be careful.
2007-01-05 19:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious, Why are you looking? and Why don't you discuss changing things up with your partner instead? Maybe she is bored with you too.
Are you willing to risk you relationship for some "fun"? Isn't you partner worth more than that to you?
Be careful you are set down a road that will lead only to the end of your relationship.
OH and PS!!!
They always find out & it is near impossible to recover from the breach of trust.
2007-01-05 19:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by allissahottie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the 1st person. Get a divorce first then look for someone to have fun w/. I'd bet you'd fly into a rage if your wife was hooking up w/ other men.
2007-01-05 19:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by snowball24life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some fun patching up your marriage or get a divorce!
2007-01-05 19:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by asreid14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved the person you are married to you wouldnt be thinking of that. Whatever needs or desires you have you should see if your wife is willing to spark up your sex life and not thinking of going to another place.
2007-01-05 19:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by SexyLove910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being an idiot.
You really think that having an affair is going to be all fun and games, excitement and enjoyment?
You REALLY think that it's worth the pain and suffering, broken trust, and heartbreak that it will cause your wife (and kids?).
Stop being a selfish **** and get your priorities in line.
2007-01-05 19:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You must be a regular fireball in bed! Why don't you start with www.theromantic.com
It has worked for many couples...married couples, too. Unless, your the real bore, boar.
2007-01-05 19:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋