2007-01-05 10:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by brenda29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. You're married. What kind of person is going to be ok with dating a married woman? Losers. Wait until you're legally divorced before starting up with another person. Besides- what's the point of dating? Are you already looking for a new husband?
2007-01-05 10:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your all tore up over the separation!
The answer is dependent upon your morality. You are still married even though you are separated.
Your best bet is to divorce first and then start looking.
I say this because I did not do that. I found and begin living with a woman that is now my wife. She begin planning our wedding, with my okay, before I finally got around to divorcing my first wife.
No one knew that the divorce was final only about a week before we got married. I got lucky because it could have taken longer than it did. Even though that is the extreme take it from me that is not the way to go.
2007-01-05 19:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can honestly say to yourself that your marriage is over and no going back, then go for it. But do you really feel you're ready, I don't think it is wise to jump into the dating game so quickly. You are still married, and that is a union brought together by God. Be good to yourself, you have been through a lot so you need to pamper yourself a little, go out and have some fun before getting serious too quick. Good Luck!!
2007-01-05 19:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if it means anything that you are still married. Separated does not mean divorced. Keep in mind that if you are caught, it is considered cheeting and alimony could be a new word in your vocabulary. I have to say that if you are considering divorse, it is good to know that when all is said and done, you tried to make it work as much as possible. I don't know your situation but conseling helps more than you'll ever know. It's just a suggestion. Good luck.
2007-01-05 19:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by shannon s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going tho just went through the same thing myself. If you know that you are not trying to work things out in hoping of getting back together than you have to move on with your life. There is no time frame on how long you have to wait before dating again as long as you are comfortable with what you are doing that is all that matter. Good luck on the dating game.
2007-01-05 18:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by SexyR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Take some time to figure out what happened with your spouse. Get some counseling (even if you will not be getting back together). There is a small chance you and your spouse will work things out (even though it seems impossible now), but if not, you will be in a better position to make the next relationship work.
2007-01-05 20:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this decaying society...go ahead. It's only bad if your morals get in the way. However, make sure there's no chance of getting back with the soon to be ex. Personally, I'd wait til the divorce was final, but that's just me. My morals do get in the way.
2007-01-05 18:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl GO 4IT ok go out wit sum 1 ttly hot so ur x man can get so jelous and want u but ull be 2 busy wit tha hot 1 2 even consider tha bych u dumped ur homie
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2007-01-05 18:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by singlebabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. If you are moved out and you all are really done with, why not. If there's any hope of reconciliation or if you aren't over your spouse yet it's probably not a good idea.
2007-01-05 18:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left you then i say go for it, but if you are the one that did the leaving then you should wait until the divorce is final or it may have consequences.
2007-01-05 19:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋