i need advice?

Question

i have been really sad lately and sometimes i cut myself like one day ill cut one day i wont then ill go for a week with out cutting then i do it again and i bleed but it helps alot and it makes me feel better alot better but i havent cut in a few weeks and i want to cut again but idk if i should also i hate myself it sucks im fat and my bf like ingors me in school for 2 periods then he acts like eveyrhting is ok and ugh i want to cut again so bad help me

Answer 1

well...find another way of coping...cutting isn't the answer...and yeah it may feel good when you do it..but how about afterwards..you probably feel guilty...what you need to do is dump that boy friend of yours..if he treats you like taht he doesn't deserve you...you sound likeyou have really low self esteem and the main reason you put up with your boy friends crap is because you think no one else cares for you...or something along those lines...well people do care about you...i care about you and i dont even know you that well...if i didn't care i wouldn't answer your question..join some after school activities and don't listen to what people say or might say about you...

Answer 2

Go to the library.

Read the book, The Bright Red Scream,
and you will learn about your addiction.

There are many other books on cutting/slashing/self-mutilation.

You are right to reach out and get help.
Tell your family doctor and ask your doctor to recommend help and a treatment plan.

You can't do this alone. Please reach out and get help.
Then you can get back to feeling good, not not just good, getting really joy back into your life.

I know - because my 17 year old was just ordered to counseling and see her pedicatrician every 30 days - for this self-mutilation addiction. ...and yes I went to court to get her into treatment, and her father did NOTHING! - SHE DECIDED TO LIVE WITH HIM, AND THAT'S WHAT SHE DID TO HERSELF.

So please get the help you need - and it will give you a new focus on your life.

You someday will look back and say, I did ask for help at the right time in my life.

GOD bless us one and all, always.

Answer 3

STOP HURTING YOUR SELF..... get rid of that zero and get you a hero and girlfriend big is beautiful I know alot of men that like heavy set women I'm a heavy woman and my man loves every each of my body. read that book by Monique"Skinny B*tches are evil" (no offense) i think being big is sexy and you should never down yourself you are beautiful and sexy and you shouldent let anyone tell you different...god loves us no matter what we do how we look or what we believe and if you boyfriend cant love you like that then drop him girl..every time you look in the mirror just think that reflections is a sexy smart educated young woman staring back.girl keep ya head up girl..you sexy thing U

Answer 4

first of all, dump your bf. all s/he does is make you want to cut yourself again.
second, stop cutting yourself. you are going to regret it. If you can't, try talking to someone you are close to. Try to understand why you cut yourself. most times, you wont even know the reason. if there is a reason, you should try to solve it.

good luck!

Answer 5

your still a young lady you a bright future ahead of you so dont distroy it by cutting yourself bit by bit it doesnt make sense,cheer up problems will always have solutions and cutting yourself is not a solution but an additional problem,set agoal for yourself study hard,dont downgrade yourself,fat is cute and beautiful,and good luck to you

Answer 6

You have to quit that. What if you cut too deep? You don't sound like you want to die. Talk to someone you trust if you're feeling that down, and maybe think about getting some counseling. I know it sounds lame, but talking to someone who dedicated their lives to helping people solve their problems...can be really helpful. Afterall, its what they do! As for your boyfriend, you don't need him. You need a sweet boy who will spoil you and there are loads out there.

Answer 7

First kick the bf to the curb. Second talk to your mom, doctor, guidance consular, neighbor mom, someone at your church, keep talking until someone helps!