I want a surrogate mother?

Question

Hi,
I want a surrogate mother who will carry the baby for me, I am ready to pay the woman for service, I find some surrogate agencies in california which are very costly and costs 40-50k. My budget is 10k, what are the options available ?

Also I am in the middle of ending a painful relationship and can't marry another girl with out My parents consent. I badly want a baby for me. Appreciating your input on this.

Answer 1

i think you need to slow down and get the divorce over with first. And why do you need your parents consent to remarry? If you need their approval of your future wife, maybe you should have their approval of your surrogate too? See what I mean? Get independant first. Get away from the folks. Stand on your own2 feet, make sure you aren't hurting, and then think about baby. Who knows? by then, you may have a girl you love that wants to get pregnant.

Answer 2

I have a friend who become a surrogate. She did it for a couple she didn't know. She told me once that it was easier to let the child go to someone she wasn't close too but since the birth she's become a very good friend of their families. Often the parents are responsible for covering the cost of medical care and expenses. I don't think there is anything wrong with being compensated for having to carry anothers baby for 9 months. My friend said if you're open enough to do this allow the parents to be there for dr. appts. hospital visits and even the birth. If at all possible don't use your eggs it's would mean sending a part of you away which is difficult to do. It's a noble thing your considering but make sure you get the right couple. One who won't see you as a threat. My friends gift knows her as the person who helped bring her into the world.

Answer 3

How old are you? If you have time left, I would wait. You might be someone you love and your parents approve of. What are your reasons for wanting this child so badly. Remember, a child needs both parents regardless of what society says. Think about it.

If you must, I doubt if you will find an agency that will be within your budget. Here is a website that will give you a general breakdown of prices.

www.surrogatemothers.com

I wish you the best and hope you get everything your heart desires.

Answer 4

if you are in the middle of ending a painful relationship it might not be the best time to raise a baby. plus, how old are you? do you have the means to support him? would your parents agree to you raising a child alone but not to marry another girl? and, most important, why do you want this baby?

if you can answer all these questions contact me, i might be able to help.

Answer 5

I'm down.

Question though.....you're a lesbian but can't marry another girl without your parents consent?...but you want a baby?

Kind of confused.

Answer 6

Perhaps she meant "partners consent"

Answer 7

I'll do it for 10k.

Answer 8

http://www.surrogacy.com

I will do it for 25,000