I've known this one guy for over a year and I've started having really stong feelings for him. We already have a relationship as friends. Now, I've had crushes before but they usually only last for, at most, a month--I've liked him for a year! I have made some attepts to show that I like him, I even kissed him goodbye once (on the cheek!) but even that didn't phase him. I still have no idea what's on his head and he always seems pretty busy. What if he doesn't like me at all? What if he thinks I'm annoying? It almost makes me cry just thinking about it. WHAT DO I DO?!?!
2007-01-05 10:10:13 · 9 answers · asked by Harry's#1fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just let him know how ye feel. no games & no BS. Be strong!
2007-01-05 10:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by ~The Medieval Islander~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to sit him down and tell him. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We were best friends before that for 5 1/2 years. I broke up with my boyfriend and he was right there for me. Then he came out and told me that for the past 2 years he'd been waiting to tell me how he felt. He was very honest with me, and at first I wasn't feeling it. But I gave him and chance and now nearly 2 years later we are still together and getting married soon.
2007-01-12 05:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Little_Bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes we do like people---as friends. Being in a relationship is a whole different ball game---and does change things.
Have you looked at his 'dating' life..is he busy messing around with other girls??? think about this. If he knows you are a good girl for him AND he wants a serious girlfriend, I think he'll take it further with you...but if he's into mesing around right now, MayBe he doesnt want to hurt you because you are a friend...
2007-01-13 04:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Ask him how much he likes you and what he thinks of you, then tell him how you feel. Go to his house right now and do that , coz you might be a minute late and you will find him asking out someone else. Us guys have difficult asking out someone we are friends with coz they prob know our past sex escapades and how we make on women so we feel "'she prob knows all my moves'' and that makes us weak to do anything about it. if you guys had not been friends before, you prob would have been pregnant by now
2007-01-11 22:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should call him and set up a day for ya'll to go out and just talk, tell him how you feel. And if he doesnt feel the same way then, find someone else. U never know there might be someone out there that's better than him!!
2007-01-05 10:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by C/0 '09_R.I.P kING MJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u try just coming out telling him. Does he have a girlfriend or is he talking to someone? If not I would probably just be honest with him
2007-01-05 10:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by JLo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, i think that you should just tell him straight out. Tell him that you like him and see if he would go out with you
Bye bye
Good luck!
2007-01-13 08:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ravie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just staight out tell him that u like him and see if he would go out with u
2007-01-12 08:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him/her in a five star hotel and have a sexual intercourse
2007-01-11 15:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋