We`re due to get married in March this year.The thing is his Granny popped her clogs 2 months ago and i know they were close but all he does all day is slob around filling his face with anything he can find.I`ve even had to rehome the dog for fear she`d be eaten next. His weight has rocketed and his suit doesn`t fit him anymore,which is a good thing i suppose as i have told him that no way am i walking down the aisle to be met with a sumo wannabe.I mean all my friends and family will be there and a girls got standards.Can you believe the way he`s treating me?Should i just dump the fat loser?Hes obviously too wrapped up in his own selfish feelings to care about me.
2007-01-05 10:07:07 · 20 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Loose the fatty!!! What a SELFISH BASTARD!!!
2007-01-05 10:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're too wrapped up in yourself to realise that the guy you are supposed to love is suffering serious depression, maybe you should re-assess the whole deal . Marriage is a partnership and a long term commitment for better or worse. It's not just one day in fancy outfits. Wake up. Your man needs support, and quite possibly proffesional help. This is your opportunity to show him what kind of life partner you are capable of being. Try not to let him, or yourself, down.
2007-01-05 10:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by nealo d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i actually think your the one being selfish and if anyone should get dumped its you i don't understand why your marring hI'm in the first place you obviously don't love him if you did you wouldn't mind the size on him
i bet your not perfect maybe if you chat and ask him to lose a bit of weight but not rant on the way you have
by the way im not perfect but im not shallow my bloke has put on a bit of weight but hes still my bloke www.babesandboys.com see the naughty nurses 100 per cent I'm Miss July (giving the injection) and Miss September i was also picked from more than 3000 girls for an advertising campaign in Canada so maybe you should have a little think
2007-01-05 10:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Twin mummy *** 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Nancy Kay.You're so shallow.Why did you agree to marry him anyway?Was it because you want to look good?I hope he finds out what kinda selfish person you are and dumps you instead.How can you possibly live as a married couple if you dont sympathise with his dead grandmother.And the term popped her clogs is so insensitive of you.
2007-01-05 11:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by suzi q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does his weight depend on whether or not you love him? you loved him before he put on weight, it is you who is the shallow one.
you worry what friends think of you being seen with him fatter! shallow to the utmost on your part.
now think a minute, who's being selfish here, you seem so wrapped up in your feelings that it may just be you??
he was close to gran, this was 2 months ago, for gods sake woman he is grieving, its obvious to anyone and should be obvious to you if you care enough and love him at all.he's depressed and caught up in the grieving process.a caring partner would support and listen.don't marry him for his sake it is doomed, you don't care enough about what really matters and thats the person not the image.sorry to be so blunt but this answer was so obvious.
2007-01-05 10:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by matured 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly the loss of his grandmother has deranged what was otherwise a brilliant mind.
I do believe that yours is a marriage made in heaven if you would just give it a chance.
How about you do a double marriage where you affirm your love with what's 'is name, while at the same time the remains of the grandparents are propped up in the corner for some sort of re-affirming of their bowels...sorry..vowels...sorry again...vows.
2007-01-05 10:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you may be the selfish 1 how would you feel if you lost some 1 that close, doubt he would be thinking about dumping you how about supporting the man instead of putting him down
2007-01-05 10:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh - you have absolutely no empathy or understanding of the grief your bloke's going through!!
I sure hope we wakes up to you and doesn't go ahead with any marriage. As far as selfishness goes, your definition of "selfishness" is completely different in my dictionary!
2007-01-05 23:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how absolutely shallow you are, if you love him then you should love him for him and not his size and as for the sitting around all day eating then thats obviously his way of dealing with the loss of his granny. if you cant cope with family things then you shouldnt be together anyway.
2007-01-05 10:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess What ? Don't marry him coz all u care is about yourself & your LITTLE IMAGE. Marriage is far beyond it . You need to GROW up before you marry.
P.S. : Next time try to say " His Granny passed away " & not popped her clogs ........RESPECT!
2007-01-05 10:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww you are such a nice thoughtful young Lady.
Its so refreshing to read from someone so understanding and caring.
2007-01-05 10:11:37 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋