Have to go to a Hard Core Metal Show.....Not into it....How do I deal....?

Question

My fiancee and I have been invited to go to Harpo's in Detroit, MI on Jan. 27th for a 20 band, all day, all night, all ages concert. I'm into rock, and like some disturbed, linkin park, ect. , but this stuff is blood and gore screamin goth, and isn't my scene at all. I have to go (compromise, ya know!) I don't know what to where or how to deal with this whole thing and come out of it having a good time, HELP!

Answer 1

take lots of bathroom breaks? i share ur musical tastes, too, and maybe it would be a little quieter in the bathrooms or where they sell the T-shirts and stuff.

good luck at Harpo's!

Answer 2

Wow.... I miss Harpos! I'm from Michigan originally and I used to go to Harpos @ least once a week for concerts.... (my nickname is The Harpos Chic, lol) anyway.... so I assume you're going to a deathmetal show by the way you described the music..... if you are a drinker, I suggest getting really drunk so then you might enjoy the music more..... if you like moshing @ shows, you will have fun because the mosh pits @ Harpos are great for ANY kind of music..... it's good that you are comprimising though..... it shows that you are a good person.... your fiancee should be happy that you are going in the first place.... just make sure that you "get something" in return ; )

Have fun

~A~

Answer 3

I know how you feel, I was once made to go to Ozzfest, but I'm more of a Sisters of Mercy kind of girl. I spent most of the time people-watching, which can be very entertaining. If it gets too much for you, tell whoever you're going with that you're not feeling great halfway through the show and sit in the back and read. But keep an open mind, you may enjoy yourself.

Answer 4

first of all hardcore music isnt goth
thats grindgore
just gohave fun dance dont worry about the lyrics listen to the beat