he sits there and flirts with girls right infront of me. then when i try to say something he says "ur soo jealous all the time." so i never try to let it bother me...but it does! what do i do?
2007-01-05 09:34:32 · 16 answers · asked by raelynn 3 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
Drop him like a hot potato.
If he's so immature and self centered that he can't understand that his behavior is hurtful, then you don't want to be with him anyway.
Alternately, you could try flirting in front of him. It may end up causing an argument, but perhaps he needs to understand what it feels like.
2007-01-05 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't flirt because your boyfriend is an insecure a**hole.
He flirts because he knows he can and you let him get away with it. Probably thinks it makes him a bigger man.
What can you do?
1) Stand up for yourself, tell him how it makes you feel. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If this doesn't work or you get laughed at...kick him to the curb and move on.
2) He's a boyfriend, not your husband. Flirt if you feel like it and ignore his feelings after. Give him a taste of his own medicine.
3) Or.. just blow this idiot off and look for a real man. Some one who cares about you and your feelings.
That's what dating is about...to find the one that is right for you, not stick with this kind of jerk because you feel committed for some strange reason. Get out, play the field, enjoy life. You will find the right guy down the road. Life is too short to let other people bring you down.
Good luck.............
2007-01-05 18:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by ex-para333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should let him know it bothers you. Maybe you can save the relationship. He sound like a class A jerk to me but you do what you feel is right.
2007-01-05 17:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when women flirt they get carried away and can't control they're flirtness. they end up makiing out with the guy or having sex. but the guy can flirt because we love our girlfriend and would not cheat because we know when to stop.
2007-01-05 17:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends are unfair that way. Just flirt anyways, if he won't let you it's because he's too possessive and he doesn't trust you.
2007-01-05 17:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Alannah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm.you could get with me..thatll solve the problem..and ill take you out for ice cream too(ur paying)
2007-01-05 17:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he' sa pimp
maybe its not flirting he should be able to talk to other girls without you getting mad at him. i mean remember your still his girlfriend.
2007-01-05 17:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by nybigblue1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as you used to do.. in front of him... make him burns ( in case if hes still love you) let him drink from the same cup..
and if he said any tyhing tell him to go and !"£$ your self.. and leave him
2007-01-05 17:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Neeboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend.
2007-01-05 17:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by KaShae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with it, or find a new boyfriend.
2007-01-05 17:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nelson_DeVon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋