Ok so I dated this guy for a year and we were eabout to move in together. One day we're on the phone and he casually says, "This girl, Andrea, at work has a crush on me." That's all, didn't bring it up again. Two week later he breaks up with me....ahem, actually says he "wants a break." And we were suppose to move in together in two weeks from the break. So three weeks after the break, in which during those three weeks he said 'I hope it's us in the end' when I called him, he is living with and dating this girl, you guessed it, Andrea. A month or so later he calls me up and says he broke up with her bcause she was cheating on him and kicked her out. He started saying he loves me, sorry, missed me, thought about me even when he was with Andrea. So we unofficially got back together, in that just talked like we did before, etc. He even said he wanted to go on vacation together. So three weeks after that he says he just wants to party, be single, etc, and says I was never his..
2007-01-05 09:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
...girlfriend again. He was just telling me how he felt---missing, loving me, etc. So he was saying he wants to go to the mountains together, calling me all the time, saying he loves and misses me, and was talking about having sex and being intimate with me, and he said I wasn't her girlfriend again? And the he had the nerve to say that that wasn't leading me on? What do you guys think?
So about everything else, what do you think? Did he break-up with me to see how things would go with Andrea because he was curious/flattered to her having a crush on him? And that's why he said 'take a break' so if the crush didn't work out he'd have me to fall back on, and with a 'on a break' if she didn't work out he could say we never broke up. Thoughts? Guys would actually throw away a year to see where a crush would go?
One more thing: A month before the break we went to the beach, stayed in a hotel. We just got back into the hotel room in mid afternoon and I just a needed to go downsta
2007-01-05 09:34:34 · update #1
irs for a few minutes to check something and that I wasn't leaving the hotel. He, from the bathroom, said "no don't go, I don't wanna be here alone." I said I'd be just a few, said bye baby, and left. So a get back to the room and he's mad pacing back and forth. I say sorry...I love you. He says "no you left me and I told you not to." I kept apologizing trying to hug him, etc. Finally he forgave me. That night I told him what I was doing: Checking the time a gourmet breakfast opened so we could go the next morning. He said he wasn't THAT mad and was even trying not to laugh in the bathroom. A few days later, he was even telling his friends he over-reacted. So anyway when he wanted the break, one of his reasons for it was, "Summer, you left me in the hotel room." What do you think? Give me your thoughts on all of this!
2007-01-05 09:35:04 · update #2
Oh and, it's OVER. I haven't talked to him for weeks. And the only reason I did weeks ago was because he said he wanted to be friends, but I said I didnt want to and he got pissed and we haven't talked since. I've been dating since then too.
So was it a concidence he dated and lived with that girl Andrea after we broke up? Or am I right that he wanted to see how the crush worked out and then keep me 'on a break' in case his crush didnt go through?
Oh yea and we had sex just a month before he broke up with me and he was my first time but him he had sex with one other girl. He knew it was a huge deal to me and he breaks up with me a month after we had sex and lives with another girl. When I asked him he said, "Marissa it's not like we did *it* all the time!"
I feel like I wasn't good enough...or maybe I'm just ugly. Am I horribly ugly??
That's me in the pic <---------------
2007-01-05 09:35:36 · update #3
I think thAT maybe he said in his mind.. well anyways i have marrissa is that ur name? well he said i got her if the whole andrea thing dont work out ... in other words that happend to me my boyfriend tottaly broke up wit me for some time ...then his ex broke up wit him or treated him real bad and came back to me telling me that i love u and i never liked her and all ...i was like come on u said...then i dont know but belive me here what goes around comes around or is it the other way around!
2007-01-05 09:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh your God i've gone cross-eyed!
kick his sorry *** to the curb babe, asho le this sounds like a bad situation and you need to get out as quick as poss.
and not trying to sound too corny but... yer i think you look great!
Hope this helps,
Nick
maybe we could have a chat sometime my 360 is on my profile
Adios!
2007-01-06 21:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Stickman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was playing you. You were right to listen to your gut. Trust your own judgement and stay away from him.
2007-01-05 17:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where you at girl I thikn your cute do you live near fresno gimmae a hlla
2007-01-05 17:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk, leave his sorry ***. u deserve better, don't let him play u like that next time he calls u tell him to go to hell.
2007-01-05 17:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋