Me and my boyfriend were looking at pictures of him and some frineds awhile ago. There was a pic of him with his guy friend and his friends girlfriend laying on a bed together. They were all dressed in the pic but they all had there pants undone with suductive looks on there face. I asked him if they had a 3-some and he said no way. By the looks of the pic it really looks like they were up to something. Am I just paranoid?
2007-01-05 09:31:18 · 18 answers · asked by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Most guys brag endlessly if they have actually had a threesome. No matter who the other two are. The people in the abercrombie ads all look like they just had a threesome too....it doesn't mean they did. They just want it to look that way. I doubt he did. But it would have been a foursome cause someone was taking the picture!
2007-01-05 09:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being a little paranoid. My best friend and I have taken stupid crazy pics before with her dude. I was always the 3rd wheel so we all hung out alot. Some things always seem funnier at the time when you think no one else will see them. And even if they did have a 3some.. does not mean he has to be gay. guys have 3somes w/ one girl all the time and never touch each other!
However.. I always say better safe than sorry. Keep your eyes and ears open at all times for clues of homosexuality. Don't go over board though.. he could be telling the truth and you don't wanna ruin your relationship. Try trusting him on this one. Good Luck
2007-01-05 09:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by LOLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just based on what you've written, who the hell knows. That could mean anything or nothing. On the one hand, he was the one who showed these pix to you apparently, so it was probably innocent; on the other, he could've been trying to "suggest" something to you...lol. If this is your only clue, I don't think you really have anything to worry about, but of course the only good answer is "Talk to your bf."
2007-01-05 09:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are very paranoid. Has he shown any signs that he might be a homosexual aside from the picture. Like a "real" close male friend. Does he like for you to play with his a#@? You know stuff like that.
2007-01-05 09:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they took the picture as a joke. Just ask him what the deal is with their pants being all undone. (Don't ask like you're suspicious, just laugh about it.)
2007-01-05 09:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way of knowing except believing what he says. only he knows the truth. the pic could have been just taken as a joke. if you cant trust him find another guy.
2007-01-05 09:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely; I know friends who do that all the time for jokes and fun. He may be bi, who knows, but a picture probably isnt a very good clue as to whether he is.
2007-01-05 09:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say there just doing it for the picture.
If he was Bi I think he would have told you the truth.
As a guy if my GF told me she was Bi I would be happy as it would mean maybe one day we can spice up the relationship with a 2nd woman if it got dole.
Also he could just as easily leave you for another woman as another man.
2007-01-05 09:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just paranoid. It sounds like a harmless posed for picture.
2007-01-05 09:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by cheri b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was before you came along anyway get over it if you are paranoid if your worried about it.
2007-01-05 09:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by TRINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋