what is most important things in relationship between man and a woman?

Answer 1

A good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.

Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.

Answer 2

When you are in a relationship the most important things are good communication, trust, love, loyalty and you need to feel like that other person is not just your lover but also your best friend.

Answer 3

Learn To Listen
Probably the most important (and positive) thing you can do while communicating, is learning how to listen to your mate. Men are notorious for mentally plotting their verbal comeback when they should be listening. This creates communication distance where one person won't comprehend what is being said since they are not truly listening.

To better concentrate on listening, be sure to look directly at your mate. If possible, turn your body towards her and try to place other thoughts aside.

Use positive body language to show that you are listening. Give a nod or two, and say words of agreement like, "Yes", or "I understand".

To show that you've been listening, repeat some of the things she's said by using her words to ask for clarification. This shows that you are paying attention and understand the subject matter.


Develop A Talking Style
Some people have problems communicating as a result of their own voice tones. This may seem trivial, but it's true. If your speech patterns are received as condescending or negative, it is very likely that you will have a harder time getting your mate to listen.
Conversely, a jovial or excessively playful tone, will make it difficult for your mate to take you seriously during those important conversations. For good measure, practice using different voice tones when engaged in specific dialogues:


Emotional or serious conversations should be met with compassionate and serious sounding tones. One of the best ways to show your mate that you're listening, is to reflect the tone of the conversation in your voice.

If your mate is speaking in general terms, or not really talking about anything in particular, using your keen problem-solving skills in your responses is be unecessary. Men are often accused of seeking a quick-fix to a problem that the woman never wanted resolved. More time than not, she only wanted someone to listen.

Once you know the type of conversation you're in, you can better develop your talking style.


Be Courteous
When all else fails during your conversations (and you will have many!), be sure to remain cognizant of your partners' needs:

Don't interrupt. Interrupting is probably the most common grievance given by those experiencing communication disconnect in their relationships. When your mate is interrupted, she will feel unheard. A good strategy to follow, is to learn how to recognize your partner's signals for conversation shift. During your conversations, she may slow down when attempting to end her portion of the dialogue -- or she may attempt to pass control to you by asking a question.

Talk about something other than yourself. Unless the conversation is specifically about you, try not to steer it into a, "woe is me", or a "I had the same problem" type of conversation. Doing so will give the appearance that you've already listened to your share of information from her, and now you're no longer interested in what she has to say.

Break the silence. No woman likes talking to a brick wall. Especially when she expects the wall to listen and respond on occasion. As outlined in the previous step, Learn To Listen, acknowledge her words with positive body language and affirmative words.

Don't forget that effective communication with your mate is crucial to the growth and success of your relationship. Without it, your partner is likely to feel lost, disconnected, and wishing she had someone to talk to.

Answer 4

The most IMPORTANT thing in a relationship is communication!!! If you can't talk to each other then you can't build trust, love, and respect do to the fact that you need to be able to talk to each other in order to build other things in a relationship of ANY kind!

Answer 5

The 3 C's

Communication

Commitment

Compromise

Answer 6

Trust

Answer 7

Het tako

The most important thing in a relationship is trust, without trust u have no hope. I have 3 rules love , trust and sex if all these things are good u cant loose . These 3 simple rules work 4 me but every ralationship is different. Good luck hope u find your true love !

Answer 8

Completeness

Answer 9

Yes it's very important. A lack of honesty could lead to a lack of trust. You can't have one without the other.

Answer 10

Love, trust, communication, honesty, and understanding. Those are most important to me about marriage.