I need help figuring out what sexaulity I range in???? If someone would please read the blog I posted on my #60 to get more of what I mean I ask that they please Email me or IM me.
Please help I am so confused!!!!
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2007-01-05 09:10:36 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honey, it is natural, regardless of what anybody says, to be attracted mentally and physically to the same sex. I am a woman and i look at other women, not thinking I want to have sex with them, but appreciating the beauty of somebody else...Now when I look at a man that is similiarly attractive, I don't just simply appreciate his beauty, I want to DO him,...in my mind anyways, I am not that bad of a girl. Anyways, I think you should not worry about it, it will just make you anxious and scared, go with the flow of how you feel. Of course, if you find men attractive, then you more than likely are not a lesbian, you have just not gotten close to one emotionally, it will come. I envy you in a way, I have always been one of those women that has a hard time making female friends because I feel intimidated I guess, that is the only explanation I can come up with, but making friends with men comes easily for me, I feel i have more in common. You are just a person that leans more towards friendship with females. nothing wrong with that , especially since you are a female. I think that when you meet that man you will marry, you will be a good soulmate because you think alot of emotional connections. That is a good thing.
2007-01-05 09:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do think that there will be an attraction to both genders for life. The idea that a bisexual is confused and is either straight or lesbian comes from the thought that a bisexual can't be monogamous because we like both genders. Once we fall in love and decide for a monogamous relation we are thought of as either hetero or lesbian, not as a bi in a relationship. Those that were homosexual when homosexuality was still very much in the closet often ended up labeled as straight. That didn't mean that they were straight. Once homosexuality was out there was still an issue with being bi, because bi is thought of as "confused" and so on. And people ended up choosing sides, even though they were bi. The young today feels less pressured to pick a side, and that's why there are more young bisexuals now. IMO.
2016-05-23 06:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all, sexuality is a continuum and there are no such things as absolutes! You are NOT confused and don't let anyone on here tell you so! They don't know what they're talking about!
You need to contemplate moving beyond being 'defined' by society and people and realize that you are simply you in all your complexity and uniqueness.
You're young and you don't need to 'decide' or 'define' yourself now or ever.
Both sexes are beautiful in their own way but more importantly, its not about the sex, its about the PERSON!
I am bisexual (if I must be defined) and when I fall in love, its with the person, not what sex they are!
Relax, be yourself and be happy!
2007-01-05 09:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Turtleshell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you are going through. I spent most of my high school embarrassed because i knew i liked guys (i had bfs) but i had crushes on some girls too. and i thought about it a lot. now, i don't like titles " Gay, Straight, Bi" But it took me until college to admit that I liked girls. I am not bi or straight. I just do what makes me happy. That's what i would recommend. Just do what you want and what makes you happy. Don't worry about titles or what other ppl think.
2007-01-05 09:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, confused. Don't worry about it, though. You'll figure it out eventually. Just be yourself, and let whatever is going to happen happen.
2007-01-05 09:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_sorceress_169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you're confused alright...but have no fear...that's normal for teens!
There's no hurry, just be happy and live your life as you see fit. You'll know who or what you are when you need to.
2007-01-05 09:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a gay girl..since you don't want to have sex with a guy..but you want a relationship with a girl..if no guy gets you sexually hot..then your a lesbo..pardon my french..I am bi..girls get me hot and I like sucking a large hung guy..my fantasy is a shemale...you know a hot chick and a dyck...
2007-01-05 09:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r a confused person. u need a doctor
2007-01-06 00:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares! guys have hard c**** to stick in you and girls have big bouncy boobies! does it get any better? if u're bi u can have either and both at the same time! when u look in the mirror stand proud, not everyone can pull out a threesome; many people brag and they've never done it but truly bi peopl have no choice! they like it all! watch movies to further help u decide and play with lotsa toys... also your dreams ought to tell u where u'd like to be... have fun.
2007-01-05 09:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you're just confused, don't worry thing will become much more clear as you age. until then experement your little heart out.
2007-01-05 09:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋