i have a big time problem with this because things like that can make me feel really depressed sometimes & it's not the confidence issue. i feel great in my own company and the company of other, tender people. i just want to learn to ignore the other type and not mind their presence.
thanx
2007-01-05 09:06:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
if you ignore me I'll beat your sissy butt down.
2007-01-05 09:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by circusofhosers 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to change what is in your control to change, which is your viewpoint. Change your focus from the BS to the things that are truly important to you and to the people that you can trust and who are worthy of your kind attention. There is so much the world has to offer us in our lifetimes and we will barely experience a tiny part of it. So make a conscious effort to focus on those things that matter to you most and let it make a difference in your life.
When you're stuck in a situation where you can't avoid a perpetrator, kill them with kindness. Do it daily if you have to. You might find that you were the only light in their life and they may thank you for it later.
2007-01-05 17:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katryoshka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all a matter of perspective. You cannot change people who are difficult but you can change the way you view their comments....remember that if an arrogant person says something condescending for example, well just think 'he would wouldn't he?' Arrogant comments come from the mouths of arrogant people.
So when next time someone says somethings that upsets you remember their 'breed' and brush it off. See tigers bite and kill, monkeys play and rotters says rotten things....so it is not personal.
Hope that helps a bit.
2007-01-05 17:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Develop a sense of humor. You need to learn to laugh at the
insensitive clods who believe it is their life mission to be a royal
pain in the back pockets. I use to let insensitive remarks upset
me. Now I just look at those putz' and say, " Hey! Thanks for
thinking about me. Have a great day!" No one can hurt you without your permission. Don't receive the words. It is a mind set
and an attitude with a great sense of humor.
2007-01-05 17:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stay away from people who are toxic when you can and when you can't FOCUS...............Discipline yourself to focus on the purpose that you were all brought together in this one place....focus with your posture, focus with your eyes,ears,mind,focus with your entire being and all of a sudden you realize they are not in the picture anymore...and then of course you have to refocus because you just unfocused to realize that.....focus makes what is outside your "energy field" unimportant......and if they insist of talking directly to you practice saying "excuse me" and walk away.....I have even been known to put up my hand and repeat "Please stop talking to me, go away" some toxic people are really motivated when they see that you are not letting them in.....and there is no reason why you cannot confront a person and simply say Hey that is hurtful please stop.
ASSERT YOURSELF
2007-01-07 09:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i'm also a very sensitive person but what i do is anytime a horrible person annoys you, you close your eyes, and... (it might sound a bit strange lol) picture them in their underwear and everybody laughting at them, because that starts you laughing and laughter is the best cure.
izzi
2007-01-05 17:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋