what does it mean about your personality? How do you change that perception?
2007-01-05 08:54:28 · 11 answers · asked by Sasha 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well for one - are you talking about one person said this to you or a whole bunch ? if its a bunch - i would reckon that they might be on to something and you should do a little self investigation there. if you're talking about one person - do a study and ask people with whom you interract on a daily basis
2007-01-05 08:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by bbq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cold that basically means you don't really have a heart for other people but yourself. It does refer to personality and feelings. To change this you should control yourself and show other people that you actually care about them. Try "giving in" on somethings. Then people will like you and appriciate the things you do.
2007-01-05 17:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just it...it is all about perception...one might see you as cold, another as pensive. Just like one person may say you are a real downer whereas another person would describe you as philosophical, and intelligent.
2007-01-05 16:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people might say that because you are open and honest and dont hold your tongue about anything. Nothing is necessarily wrong with you. You don't have to change the way you are for someone to like you. Be yourself becuase trying to change for someone is silly cuz no one is ever completely pleased just look at married people!
2007-01-05 17:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by simpli_cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that way then you're not. Somebody who doesn't give a darn about you is just making comments without thinking.
Or on the other hand if many different people think that about you, then maybe you need to smile and say hello when you see them.
2007-01-05 16:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the person calling you cold is doing so because they want you to be "warmer" towards them. You could be a person who thinks before they act, uses your brain rather than your heart in decisions, or are frankly uninterested. Cold is just relative to where that person wants you to be with him/her.
2007-01-05 16:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the coldness is towards a loved one, be more affectionate and really make an effort to make them feel loved.
2007-01-05 17:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean you are quiet, shy, or just reserved, none of which are bad things. Not everyone is like a yappy little chiuhuah!
2007-01-05 16:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea but just wanted to say i know how u feel...maybe try smiling more and talk to ppl cuz ppl seem to take it the wrong way when u dont talk to them (for whatever reason)
2007-01-05 16:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by flatteredwu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you don't care you need to show you do.
2007-01-05 16:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋