he goes to work about 5:45 in the morning comes back home at 3:30 i cook his tea he goes up to bed or sleeps on the settee but he will not talk to me may be becauyse i keep on about the repairs he needs to get done on the house he owns it not me and i have five kids living there so i do worry alot a bout things or may be because me and my olest lad,s was going on about how evil my mother is and how i hate her and because his mum has passed away he thinks i am surpose to be nice about my mother why is he acting like this help me please this is driving me mad now he cant even look at me any more or speak to me and i feel like ****
2007-01-05 08:54:21 · 12 answers · asked by madkt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't really say his full name! no need. I'm not one for getting on my high horse but if he goes to work that early he's bound to be a bit tired and 5 kids doesn't help. Perhaps because his mam died it does kind of rub it in you saying how much you hate yours, I'm sure he would love to see his again. From the way you have written this, nobody is going to be on your side, just his. It just sounds like you are nagging him and moaning about everything. It is hard to get round to doing maintenance when you work alot. It would be nice if he didn't sleep all the time, but he has to work hard to support you and the kids. Don't give him such a hard time and I'm sure he'll come round. I hope I'm not making you feel bad but the way you wrote this will get you alot of bad replies.
2007-01-05 09:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Madkt, try to calm down. It could be that you are blowing the entire situation out of proportion. He could just not be in a talking mood or perhaps after being away from home for about 10 hours he's just tired. Give him time and when he's ready to talk he will.
2007-01-05 17:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you take him for granted. The guy's knackered for god's sake and all you do is nag him about repairing the house. Which isn't even yours. He sounds like a saint to take you and your five kids in. Don't be surprised if you come home one day and all the locks have been changed and you're out on the streets.
2007-01-05 16:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes we all know Lee Davies, maybe he's too tired to bother with repairs after coming home from work. About your mother - well he just feels you should be respecting the fact you still have your mother around, unlike him. Maybe he wants you to sort your differences out with your mother before it's too late to do it.
2007-01-05 17:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who's Lee Davis
2007-01-05 16:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is that the same Lee Davies that drinks down in The Prince of Wales Feathers? Cos if it is, he owes everyone a pint.
2007-01-05 16:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
hun,make time and sit down and talk to him ask him why tell him how you feel bad communication aint good im sure you will sort it out :)
2007-01-05 17:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called bullying sweetheart. He has ground you down so far that you feel worthless.
Ditch him. Pronto.
2007-01-05 16:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think youve got a problem and not him make up your mind and make sure that this relationship is what you want and not just a place for you and your kids
2007-01-05 16:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by julie t 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
then stop asking for it! leave him alone for a bit. make him relize that he cant live without you.
2007-01-05 16:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by springbaby304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋