My bf wants to go in the backdoor. My concern is that he will like it more than the frontdoor, since I think its tighter, right? If he likes the backdoor better, I do not want him to neglect the frontdoor from that point forward, you know?? Is this a problem for couples engaging in this?? Please no mean answers, I am serious, thank you... (I don't want to put this question in dating bec there are so many very young kids over there; maybe this is not appropriate, u know?)
2007-01-05 08:40:45 · 11 answers · asked by F 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-01-05 08:52:14 · update #1
Use your glasses next time you enter a question.
Yes ,put them on.
And??????????
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What's this question got to do with:gay,lesbian,bi-sexual and transgendered people?
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2007-01-05 08:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
It's a possibility that he may like it more. Of course, you can always refuse. Most men understand this refusal because it's very painful upon the female's initial entry. And for this reason most women don't want to engage in this type of sex at all. But if you decide upon this, you may also want to expand your sexual repertoire along other areas as well. The reason for this is to cool his burning desire for anal sex since obviously he is looking to expand. Or, what you can also do is to tell him he must satisfy the front door first or else there will be no backdoor.
2007-01-05 17:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by smackyoudown2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The back door isnt necessarily the most provocative means of enjoyment due to lack of lubrication that the front door natrually provides. Also the front door fits like a glove the back door dosen't (my boyfriends answer), whatever you decide makes sure you use plenty of lubricant and the most important thing is to relax and take it very slow and just enjoy yourself. (my answer)
2007-01-05 16:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep the communication lines open... if he's able to tell you what he wants, know that you can do the same. If you do go ahead and try it, make sure he knows that there are other things that feel good for you. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, and educate yourself first.
Good luck, be safe.
2007-01-05 16:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by trailangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the back door is awesome but i love the frontdoor also
2007-01-05 16:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Back door is tighter, but I dont think he'll loose interest in the front. Besides, did you know that you can have better orgasms if he takes you in the back and plays with your front!
2007-01-06 04:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he won't "neglect" your frontdoor. This will be an "occasional" thing. hehe make him buy you extra dinners for it.
2007-01-05 16:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DISCUSS IT WITH HIM. IF YOU LIKE IT ALSO GO FOR IT. IF NOT LET HIM KNOW.
BUT WATCH OUT!!!! IF YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKES ONLY THE BACKDOOR. THERE IS A SERIOUS PROBLEM WITH HIM.
AND YOU KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 17:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriel Revelations 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't care either way don't worry about just have fun and protect yourself.
2007-01-05 16:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does this have to do with LGBT issues?
What makes you think there are no young children in this area?
This question is for the dating and relationships area.
2007-01-05 16:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋