i am bi and i really want to tell some of my friends but i just dont no how to. im afraid that if i tell them then they will think of me as 100% lesbian and im not. i dont want them to think of me as a freak coz im not but i just dont no how to break it to them. any surgestions?
2007-01-05 08:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by dudett 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, if they really are your friends then they should except you for who you are. Just be honest with them and tell them to hear you out. Explain that your sexuality shouldn't change anything between you and them. If they walk out on you then it wasn't worth your time explaining because true friends stick around no matter what. Good luck
2007-01-05 08:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Should Tell Them Really Soon So That They Wont Get Mad At You For Not Telling Them Sooner.. If They Think Your A Freak Their Not Good Friends Anyway.. Im Straight But If One Of My friends told me that i wont think of them as a freak!!!
2007-01-05 16:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by lia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm......maybe while you're at the mall or the library with your closest friend, sort of lead into the conversation and then come right out with it. Either she'll accept it or she won't. And you may not have to tell your other friends because she might do it for you. Whatever the case may be hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. Good luck, kiddo!
2007-01-05 17:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by smackyoudown2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you tell them doesn't really matter because if they want to judge you they will anyway , what's important is to see who sticks with you after you break the news to them.And i think that you should gather all your friends in one place and tell them , so none of them feel excluded if you tell them separetly.
2007-01-05 16:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by alin_alinta_inimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling that you're too young to be so worried about sex, but I'm only guessing. I'd say you should just wait before telling people about your sexuality. Be happy and comfortable with yourself, before you make things complicated by telling people such intimate facts about yourself.
Otherwise, if you know someone who is gay (and you're not just guessing they're gay), they may be the one for you to ask this question to, see how they handled it.
2007-01-05 16:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're really your friends, they're going to be your friends, regardless of your sexuality. As far as I'm concerned, I certainly wouldn't want to be friends with someone who would think of me as a freak if I were just different.
2007-01-05 16:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by booda2009 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well go ahead and tell them. You will see who your true friends are.
Your true friends will support you no matter what - and the ones that criticize - reconsider the friendship.
2007-01-05 16:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by sugar_pink_candy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask you friends what they think of bisexuals and then if you want to confess, you can or you don't have to. If you have true friends, it won't matter what you are!
2007-01-05 16:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get closer with boys but not too close you will see that they are great!
2007-01-05 16:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Angel V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋