Okay so my friend she really likes this guy and she gave him her phone number one day and said "i wana know what your doing this weekend so call me and let me know." i am so afraid that her feelings are going to get crushed if he doesn't call her cuz over the phone she was all excited about asking him out and so proud of her self that i couldn't tell her "you know he might say no..." and i am so afraid that he wont call her back and her feelings might get crushed... what should I do and what should I say?? I feel like she is going to get crushed because of this guy and i dont want that to happen i mean she is such a nice person and she is so pretty but i dont know if this guy is really into her or not.... what should i do if she does get crushed?? what should i say if she does get crushed?? obviously if he asked her out then i would be happy for her but i am afraid he wont....please help!!
2007-01-05 08:28:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if your friend gets crushed tell her that you will be there for her to help her, tell her that she is pretty and strong and can get through this, also if she gets crushed ask her if she needs some space (sometimes all we want is to be alone), tell her that you are very proud of her for even trying/asking this guy. don' t tell her i told you so. good luck. tell her that you still care for her. good luck. i hope your friend doesn't get crushed but if so at least she has a special friend like you looking out for her.
2007-01-05 08:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you that you are sorry that he didn't call back, but there are a number of reasons why he might not have called. If you are in high school or even college, many boys get intimidated easily and freak out if a girl pays attention to them.
Point out to her that she is brave to go after what she wants and that will get her far in life. She just has to realize there will be some rejection. Plan to take her out for a fun night if he doesn't call.
2007-01-05 16:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by amt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let fate take its course. To learn you have to get your heart broken. Its not fun, and we hate to see the people we love get hurt, but sometimes we need to so they can mature, grow and learn. If he does call, then be happy for your friend. But if he doesn't call and she gets crushed then just be there for her. Tell her that he wasn't worth it and tell her she will definitely find someone who loves her and respects her for who she is. Make sure you do things with her to take her mind off of it. Go shopping or ice skating. Do something that requires you to move and have a great time. The more you do with her the more she will forget about him and possibly move on faster. Good luck!
2007-01-05 16:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by theother_littlesoldier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, it sounds to me like YOU have a crush on this girl, i think you should ask her out.
If this guy hurts her, then just be her friend, don't say anything like i told you so or i knew this would happen, just soothe her and let her know your there for her and that everything will be okay.
2007-01-05 16:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is out of your hands. Everyone goes through this and it is just a learning lesson. If we always got what we wanted we wouldnt learn anything at all. She will live no matter what. Everything will be fine. You are a great friend so wait and see what happens and if he does crush her, comfort her. She is lucky to have you in her life.
2007-01-05 16:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you say she is really nice and is pretty and I mean they guy may like her. If you do not know if he is into her or not do not say anything because he may be into her. Just let things go as they would if you did not know she was asking him out or not.
2007-01-05 16:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she gets crushed, cheer her up! Say nice things about her and dont say anything about the guy.Thats what friends are for, right? And it's not your fault that (if) she gets heartbroken, is it? No. Give her confidence. Good luck to you and your friend!
2007-01-05 16:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by ananon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know him, you can't really say whether he likes her or not. Rejection is natural, it happens. If you try to save her from rejection, she'll still be rejected someday. Plus he may like her. Most likely she won't like you if you say that he may not like her. That would make her feel like you don't think she can get a man. Just be happy for you.
2007-01-05 16:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds bad but some times that need to happen even to a nice person. there is no good was to find your true love with getting hurt some times
2007-01-05 16:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by jessaller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really cant do anything, just let her know that you will be there for her if anything happens. She has to learn from her own mistakes and you just gotta be there to help her get through watever comes.
2007-01-05 16:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by eunicealarcon05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋