some of the big girls I know are very very pretty and if they lost weight would be stunning,why is it that some men just have to take the pizz out of them its so crule.
2007-01-05 08:00:35 · 33 answers · asked by wiccawoman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the best girlfriend i ever had was super overweight. but it didn't matter to me. her attitude and self confidence was great, plus she loved me for who i was, and that's what mattered most..
2007-01-05 09:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Some men" I think is the key here. People have different tastes and it is a good job they do. What if no-one liked thin women?
(As was and is the case in many cultures)
It is better that some men like large ladies and other prefer lithe lasses, then everyone has more of a chance. I know blokes who have slightly obese partners and wouldn't swap them. Others go for the firm, toned willowy types whose waist you can cup in the palm of your hand. Note that the way I described the two types gives a big clue as to my own preference. Language is funny like that.
2007-01-05 08:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by stephen p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If they lost wt they would be STUNNING?!" Whew... okay hon, take a look at this statement. You're subscribing to the same mentality of "beauty" that you're mad at guys for being cruel about. I'm not picking on you, just trying to get you to see how cultural "standards of beauty" will fool ya every time.
Realistically, women should have a bit of meat on their bones. Morbidly obese is dangerous to a woman's health, so women should work towards being thinner for the sake of their lives, but other than that... BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER.
*w*
2007-01-05 08:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by vinslave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of US big girls don't give a rat's *** whether you like them or not, it is only how they feel about themselves that matter. If you have them lose the weight to look stunning, you are being shallow. You should just accept the people for whom they are and not be judgemental.
2007-01-05 08:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some men are incredibly shallow. There's even some women who can't face speaking to or being friends with big women. How incredibly sad of them. Some say why don't they just stop eating. But that's like saying to a smoker, why don't they just stop smoking. Its not easy. You make out like being big is a problem. They should just be proud of themselves. Its not anyone else's business. They might choose to want to look like that.
2007-01-05 08:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by beanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. The only thing is, in some women, women who are big, have a low self esteem and I hate that.
I have been with a girl twice as big as me, and it just disgusted me how much she ate, how much she kept hating herself for it and not doing anything for it and how she was just too lazy to make love. I mean, call me shallow, and I hate to say it, but, women who don't take care of themselves, or who are TOO overly fat, really are not appealing.
Some men have a thing for them. But, women I think, who CAN take care of themselves, who DO something about it and that, they are beautiful and I would accept that. But thats just my opinion.
2007-01-05 08:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that you are Caucasian and that the men your talking about is also Caucasian. It seems that only white men have this problem with large ladies. Its because they only like women that have the body of a little boy. Hispanic and black men love large gals. More cushion for the pushing.
2007-01-05 20:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to say that they will only be stunning if they lose weight? You obviously can't accept them if you think like that. Some larger women are stunning looking because of their size, not despite it!
And it's piss and cruel.
2007-01-05 08:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont be patronising fat women can be beautiful or not and its not about losing weight to be beautiful either you are or your not simple as that and some men have a problem thats their issues and not the womans and there are plenty of men who like big women and dont have a problem with size cos they are adults not children
2007-01-05 08:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by julie t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am male ( 9 stone) and i too cant believe the insulting ways of people on large ladies there is nothing at all wrong with them. i was talking to one the other night in the pub and we had a great night .
2007-01-05 08:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by chrisatyork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My niece is a big woman and has the cutest husband ever. He thinks she's so sexy! My brother also likes them big. I have no idea why, but more power to them! As I say, it takes all kinds and everyone deserves love. . .
2007-01-05 08:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋