last summer I made friends.very very good friends.i could say the best friends i could ever make.I m very grateful!but now i dont see them cause they live elsewhere and they have a lot 2do.but now in school or out of school i am not interested in making other,new friends cause i think of my "summer-friends" and i feel that they are more than enough and i dont need others.So in school many times i wanna be alone and i dont feel my classmates as my friends although i know them much longer and i always saw them as friends.i feel that i dont need them and when they talk 2me they are geting on my nerves.all except my best friend.if sb hurts me or swears on me i just think of my "summerfriends" and i start laughing cause they make me feel more than sure about myself.and without exaggeration i think of them every but EVERY day.although i see them very seldom.but we talk very much (telephone) and they are ALWAYS there and help me if i have a problem(and i miss them) is it normal?
2007-01-05 07:56:31 · 2 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they are the onlyones I can be sure that they really like me.i dont know why. cause they treat me like all the other people i ve met!!besides if i need advice i trust only them absolutely.i dont know, but i fell that they care.and i really love them.maybe because they are the first friends i ve met by myself.and i ve chosen them.in school i.e. i felt as if i were forced to have my classmates as friends and that i didnt have another choice since they put me in this scholl without me wanting it.going to the summer camp was my decision..is all this normal?? or is it also bad and dangerous cause i might lose them someday and then i ll be depressed and very sad...?? what do you think should i do?
2007-01-05 07:56:41 · update #1
I think u should still keep in touch with your summer friends but still make new friends I mean u never have to many friends. I think it's normal.
2007-01-05 08:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this does'nt sound healthy at all. OK you made nice friends during the summer and you trust them. Does it not sound a little insane to do everything in you power not to get close to anybody else? Nobody can have too many friends, and these friends of yours dont live near you, are you going to live like a hermit all the time hoping you can see them? this is bizzare and sad at the same time, you should be out there enjoying yourself, im not saying trust everyone with you secrets but learn to enjoy people's company just so you can have a social life.
You may never see these friends of yours again, what will you do then?
2007-01-05 08:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋