See me and my feonce are arguing all the time now. And i dont know what to do or what to say. I just need some advise.HELP!
2007-01-05 07:47:19 · 32 answers · asked by ♥♥Natalie♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-05 07:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being engaged can be like a test for your relationship. Sometimes each of your true colors will shine more brightly during this period. Often, the stress of all the events that are about to unfold because of a wedding date can be a source of this,"picking". Maybe you don't have date set. This could also be a reason. So, are you right for one another? Can you talk openly to each other about this picking and get to the bottom of it, even if it means a disagreement or argument? If not, you might need to talk about some time off. This often puts things in to perspective and can help end the arguing by getting the problem out in the open. It could also show you that the two of you are not compatible. Express your concerns in a respectful manner and see what happens.
2007-01-05 08:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by T.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well first of all...
before you get married you both need to sit down and make sure that marriage with each other is REALLY what you want from life.
then you need to learn to communicate WITHOUT yelling, cursing, throwing things, or physical action between each other. RESPECT is the first thing to a healthy relationship... if that is already lost then I'm afriad marriage is not what you both can handle at this point in time. Learn to be friends before lovers, and choose your battles!! not EVERYTHING is worth fighting for most of the time the things couples fight about started as a small comment then escalated because of something the other person said without thinking. try to relax and NEVER take out your anger out on that person because of something that happened at work or with some one else dont bring your personal anger to the relationship. it will cause hurt and fights and at the end you will both ask yourselves "what were we fighting about"?
2007-01-05 08:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could help you but I don't know the meaning of the words "ingadged" or "feonce", and you used the word "advise" incorrectly.
2007-01-05 07:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 21:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to sit down and talk about it. Fix the problem. If you don't things will just get worse. Trust me you don't want to lose someone that you love because you two can't agree on something. Good Luck. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-05 07:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I read your question correctly, the only thing to do is to end the engagement and find someone more compatible. If you guys are having this much trouble now, just wait till you say I do. It will get worse. Save yourself some money and heartache and end it now.
2007-01-05 07:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, don't argue if he argues, when an argument is about to start up again, you should be the one to say that you don't want to fight anymore & that you love him. This is a New Year, you guys should be celebrating your love for each other & the future.
2007-01-05 07:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.... Go to a spelling class together. Maybe you just need some time apart... Not breaking up, just maybe not seeing and talking to eachother every second of the day.
2007-01-05 08:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you to be engaged to someone and can't even spell it, of fiance for that matter. I know there are a large number of people in the world who aren't great spellers but come on.....if all you do is argue, why would you consider marrying him?
2007-01-05 07:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you shouldn't be ingadged (sic) to your feonce (sic) in the first place
2007-01-05 07:48:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋