To date someone who is getting divorced and it will be final in the next three weeks??
2007-01-05 07:45:23 · 13 answers · asked by Megan W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This man is my buisness partner and though we flirted while he was married nothing else happend.I knew he was attracted to me but told him i would not do anything with him unless he was single .
2007-01-05 07:48:11 · update #1
I meant should he have a mourning period or something?
2007-01-05 07:48:52 · update #2
Been there done that-He is getting divorced i have seen the paper work and he used my connections for the lawyer!
2007-01-05 07:51:41 · update #3
Wait until they are divorced.
It's only 3 weeks! Will it be THAT hard?
2007-01-05 07:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well--- It depends on the person. You need to decide if the person is ready to date and totally over their former spouse. If their divorce is not final it may be to soon.
Every situation is different but usually divorce is hard on both people and they probably need time to recover. You don't want to make the mistake of being a "rebound" Timing is very important in dating! Good Luck!
2007-01-05 15:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by cheercraZcoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There need be no waiting period or mourning period. More than half divorce's end due to dating or cheating while married. However; you should never, ever, get involved with someone at work. Those relationships usually end with one or both being fired, suspended or having to quit due to conflicts.
2007-01-05 15:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a little longer. He's going to fast dating you if he's just now getting a divorce. Doesn't he need sometime to cool off before swinging on the next branch with you? All i gotta say about this is BECAREFUL.
2007-01-05 15:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as soon as you see the final papers, signed, sealed and delivered. Not a second sooner. Start fresh and have a great life. Beware though, if he divorced one, you may be next!
2007-01-05 15:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he for sure is divorced,he may just be using u for emotional support to get up past the divorce, u may just be a rebound girl, until he finally gets out of the marriage. so don't trust it just yet, could backfire at the last minute.
2007-01-05 19:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No smart person would jump into a heavy relationship with a recent divorcee. If you have to see this person, work to make it platonic (coffee, walks during the day) for a good long time (like a year) If this person is worth having, he/she is worth waiting for. It is not easy, good luck!
2007-01-05 15:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by pliney the elder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time and spinning your tires....It's only about the sex and as soon as he gets it.....He will tell you that He is still married and that He lied about getting a divorce.
2007-01-05 15:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill after his divorce is final and he or she has the decree in hand.
2007-01-05 15:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I have to agree, wait until at least the divource is finalised.
2007-01-05 15:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by zap_chester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋