Can I have my first sex with my gf without a condom? Though she have had sex 2-3 time earlier. Plus can we get aids if both of us dont have aids. Can we have aids by ourself?? I hope I made myself clear!
2007-01-05 07:17:35 · 35 answers · asked by PreeAksh 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
What makes you think you don't have to use a condom just because it's the first time?
The answer is no. You should use a condom AND you should make a habit out of it.
If she had unprotected sex 2-3 times earlier, there is still a chance that she has aids... Tests are only reliable 6 months (to a year) after your last unprotected contact.
Not only sex transmits aids, you can get it through contact with blood too. (Through a small bruise or something...)
Hey, and it's not only aids... There are a lot of scary sexually transmittable diseases...
2007-01-05 07:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lene H 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Of course physically you *can*... whether it is a wise idea or not is a whole other issue. AIDS does not spontaneously generate from sex. Unless one partner already has it, the other won't get it from sex, but some people carry it without showing symptoms for a while. Other STDs also are transmittable if you don't use a condom, not to mention that you will have to use another birth control method unless you want her to get pregnant.
2007-01-05 07:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by MissA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First!!!! You should always use a condom. Second. You cannot contract aids without personal contact with someone with aids. Use a condom, unless you want to be a father very young. Oh and remember aids isn't the only sexually contracted disease. How does a little herpes sound.
2007-01-05 07:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lauretta R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex without a condom you can get her pregnant and risk getting a disease from her if she has one. If neither of you have aids, then you can't get it by being together. So I would reccommend using the condom to be safe all the way around. Unless of course you don't care if you become a daddy, or get a disease!
2007-01-05 07:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should use a condom because everyone lies once or twice. You can't trust this chick who probably had all types of things up in her cooter. Plus you can't tell if you have HIV with just a blood test. It could take up to a year or more sometimes for enough antibodies to show to give you a positive test. It is possible to get HIV or AIDS from many things other then sex. If you have ever had contact with blood from someone else or if anything ever broke your skin you have a chance (usually a rather small chance) of contracting it.
Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
Write that down.....
2007-01-05 07:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by n_m_young 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want for her to get pregnant, it is wise to use a condom. Though a condom is not 100% effective, it still can protect against pregnancy up to 85% of the time. It is also effective in preventing any types of stds.
AIDS is passed from one person to another- it doesn't happen any other way.
2007-01-05 07:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Annie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As with any STD, you can only catch it from having sex with someone who has been infected by someone else with the disease.
As for the condom, I would be much more concerned about unwanted pregnancy than aids. Unless she is using some other form of birth control, wearing one is a darned good idea.
2007-01-05 07:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom always. You dont know what her previous sex partners had. Do you know she could have herpes but dont know herself because some people dont have any signs or symptoms. A lot of disease can cause no symptoms. Just use a condom. And if neither of you have aids then neither of you can contract it from one another. Again, just use a condom, nothing can happen if you use one but a h3ll of a lot can happen if you dont.
2007-01-05 07:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that no matter what, especially for your first time you should use a condom, you just don't want to risk getting her pregnant or getting an STD or virus if she were to have one. Just when in doubt always practice safe sex, it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm sure your girlfriend is telling you the truth, but you can never be too careful.
2007-01-05 07:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by KJGabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not advise to it, if you have sex without a condom and both of you don't have aids then you don't need a condom, but if you don't use a condom then you might get an STD.
2007-01-05 07:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by amazon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋