i m a 22 yr old undergrad student....gona graduate soon....but i have no passion for nythin....when i talk to ppl...i m hardly interested....i feel cold distant...unimportant....n panic when guys are around....i m pretty attractive....but when it comes to guys i cud panic n pass out....i dunno how to deal with this....i have tried every trick in da book.....i m extremely self conscious....unmotivated....every term when i enter skool i decide to do well...but get consious in class and cant concentrate nymore..i went to a therapist...but it was a total disspointment...nobody around understands my problem..... most of the time i feel nuthin...completely empty n hollow..when i walk in a crowd...i have to put in so much effort even to smile..so i just luk at da ground n walk...most of da guys end up thinkin i m stuck up..its like a cage.....i m contempleting ending everythin....but am just hangin in der cas i have 2 lovin parents who love me a lot.......wts da point of livin like this??...
2007-01-05 07:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by lost_soul1985 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
im exactly where you are except for ending it all. you are not alone, seek professional help, you deserve better.
2007-01-05 11:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by lola7737 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skydive. Do something that will make you face a fear. When you learn that you have the power, and only you can withhold it from you and feel the exhileration (such as skydiving), you'll wonder why you held your self back. You deserve every good dream that comes your way. But the only person who can keep you from it is you. When you face a fear and find that you come out alright on the otherside, you'll wonder why you ever let something simple as having a good talk with someone who finds you attractive, mentally stimulating hold you back. I know. I am 45 years old and lived in fear. Never married, never had children, never did anything different to face my fears, gave them the power over me. But now I know who the love of my life is. I finally got angry enough with not having the good things in my life I deserve. I am gonna ask her to marry me! Even move out of the town I wanted to live and die in. I'm ready for change!
2007-01-05 07:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first, get to to a doctor and get a physical. It sounds like something is chemically affecting you -- maybe low thyroid -- and you need to handle it.
Then, get yourself a better therapist. Some are better than others, sounds like yours didn't work for you. You need to talk this out.
Third, get over using "da" instead of "the" -- it makes you sound stupid, and I don't think you're stupid.
You might find it helps to help others. Get into some volunteer work where you meet people with real problems. I think you'll find that it gives you perspective on your life.
Thanks for understanding that your parents love you and care for you. Maybe you can tell them what you're going through and they can help? In any case, thank you for not ending everything because it would destroy them forever.
2007-01-05 07:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by asking your school for spelling lessons , after you get that in control try speaking in normal speech not that damn ebonics crap, perhaps by doing these 2 things you might have a better time interacting with others
2007-01-05 07:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by glavendale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like GAD...i have it and i feel just like you but it was helped with lexpro and now 3 yrs later i am clean of the problem and meds
2007-01-05 07:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by aprilntex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋