Would you be happy(not dealing with it) but happy if this was your marriage:
You cook,clean,raise kids,never go out
and your husband:
goes to bars after work or comes home to eat and leaves or goes when he wants,where he wants,shows you minimal affection,dosent assist in raising his kids,cleaning or cooking.
So,if not,why do some of you do it? Why marry this person and then have his kids with him? Better of single then adding another needy brat into the picture or even better marry a partner,not a dictator.
Please state age,where you live and if your married
Just wondering.
2007-01-05 07:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, this isnt me,Im questioning it
2007-01-05 07:08:36 · update #1
Hi I am 26 and been with ym man for 7 years and married for going on 3 years. It's weird but I had the same things happen to my marriage. He worked at a bar of all places and came home drunk just abou tevery night. I got fed up and left and then he went and got a real job and now we happier tham ever.
2007-01-05 08:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by bootylicious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way. I divorced my first hubby over BS like that. I live in Chicagoland. I was 27 when I married my first hubby. It lasted 4 years. I am 34 now, and married again. This time, I married a man who at least tries to help out and appreciate me, even though he doesn't do it often enough in my book!
2007-01-05 15:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why even consider marrying this man??? Been married 4 years and my wife and I equally clean the house and take care of the kids.
2007-01-05 15:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 25yr old. Two young children from my previous relationship - that was 9 yrs. I have never been married. I would not want that life you described but yes many women live like that. Women must know somewhat of what the man is like, so if he was like that before she must be alright with dealing with it. Marriage is a commitment. They must work together.
2007-01-05 15:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 and been married 2 years and if that was my husband I would divorce him and take him for all he is worth, and he has got to be worth something if he can go out all the time.
2007-01-05 15:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are only getting your side of the story, not his. I'm sure that you are doing something that is causing him not to come home to you. Why would he stay when he has a crappy home life? Maybe you need to open your eyes and maybe realize that you may be part of the problem instead of him.
I'm married, now separated since I figured out I was part of the problem. It takes two to have a happy marriage.
2007-01-05 15:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
age 49 married twice that is a relationship that is destin for disaster.
and not a partnership
2007-01-05 15:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him as fast as humanly possible
2007-01-05 15:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, wouldn't be happy at all. I want to be a wife, not a slave.
2007-01-05 15:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by AmyB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋