I have been seeing my doctor for less than a year. i am his patient at his clinic and i can't stop thinking about him. how do i make known my feelings without him thinking i am a stalker?
2007-01-05 06:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by pinkiepiglet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have his office cell phone number and also his email address, do u guys think i should make it known using these? and also if i decided to switch doctors, that would mean me not seeing him anymore, it will definitely depress me even more.
2007-01-05 07:19:50 · update #1
But he is in his 30s. definitely below 35. and i am 23. i am currently in an unhappy marriage. i dun mind guys older than me but i am worried he is married. how can i tell since he doesn't wear the ring?
2007-01-05 07:46:38 · update #2
I am married to a doctor. It is very common for patients to think
they are in love with their doctors, and doctors know this. It is unethical for them to respond . It is easy to think you have feelings for him because you have his undivided attention and he is probably
very kind and understanding. It is easy to confuse your feelings for
him as love. Find love somewhere else
2007-01-13 06:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by judywalker23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Baby, are you in trouble. First off, you're married. Why? Why did you get married if you still want to play around? As for the Dr. , he can't see you in a romantic way. He can lose his license over that. He probably has a great wife at home waiting for him. (She probably even put him through school) Do you want to be an adulterous and a home wrecker too? Get your head on straight!!! If you won't believe me, talk to the DR. He'll set you straight and probably refuse to see you as a patient anymore. He doesn't want to deal with a lawsuit. You need to seek some professional help in dealing with all your feelings. I with you good luck, but I also hope you grow up.
2007-01-12 18:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna say break your leg, but really you should transfer to a new doctor, just like the other guy said. Then tell him the reasons why you are moving doctors. I think he will appreciate the fact that you have transferred to elivate any unethical situations he may have been put in if you had not transferred. Plus then you can put your self out there and if you are knocked back, you dont have to see him again...
2007-01-05 07:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mekhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, I guess. You will only seem like a stalker if you keep appearing at the office with no reason to be there. Nobody looks like a stalker when they are just straight forward with the truth.
2007-01-05 07:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that can be traced to you dear, use a pay phone, or something , then it would just be his word agaisnt yours, and besides the stalking laws only apply to men, women might as well be exempt from them. Less face it dear, ya got us by the B###ls dear. Go for him, you might as well , if you don't some other woman will. Thats life.
Hey, you sound so familiar to me, have you recently changed your email name, did it used to have the word "apple" in it? G
2007-01-05 07:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new doctor first. A lot of doctors probably aren't willing to date patients for ethical reasons.
2007-01-05 07:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you fill is nothing wrong.Friend i suggest if u can do this :
you are his patient for long 1 year so he know you well.you can invite him for a lunch or dinner as a thanks giving.Chat with him.it will definetly give a chance to show how u fell after all he should be gr8full that he get such dedicated admirer.Best of luck.
2007-01-05 07:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rohit India 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way you would anybody. ask him if he'd like to go out for something to eat or sumtin like that. the only thing is if he says no you might want to get a new doc. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-05 07:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'D LIKE TO KNOW IS HOW THE HELL YOU HAVE IT THAT HARD FOR A DR. THAT YOU SEE FOR MAYBE 15 MINUTES AT A TIME. AND HOW OFTEN DO YOU GO TO THE DR? MONTHS APART....?
I THINK IT'S JUST YOU: YOU ATTATCHED YOURSELF TO HIM FOR WHATEVER REASON.
SAVE YOURSELF THE EMBARRASSMENT AND DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
2007-01-12 03:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai... dont think so much...
just go to her n propose her without any hasitation...
dont think what will she think... ?
we r with u...
best of luck....
2007-01-05 07:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by hussain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋