what would your ex get upset for paying child support?

Question

he take care my daughter but for fanancial reason I file not
for him to care me, but for her I didn,t think that they would
catch up with i was getting myself together and pls
I wasn,t working and when did get a job 7 months later i got laid
off and the business close so i had to get help, now
he,s mad at me ? and we use to able to talk, what should I do?

Answer 1

ok, brush up on your english, i know all about child support, but i didn't understand a word you just said.

Answer 2

He is mad at you because he is feeling that he has to send you money. Which he should! It is your right to get child support from him for your child. And, if you want to resolve this with him...let him know that you didn't file for the child support the state did because you were in financial hardship. When you no longer recieve assistance from the state...you can stop child support again...if you wish to.

Answer 3

Sweetie, you had to do what you had to do...if I am understanding your correctly, you had to get some financial assistance via the state, by doing so, you have to let them know if you are receiving outside financial assistance or not. You had to tell them the truth, you weren't. And now, he is upset with you because child support caught up with him and is forcing him to pay a certain amount of money to you for your child. No worries, it's sad that he's upset with taking care of his own child, but you had no choice. You didn't have the money from him, or no one...you needed the help. So, as long as he is still paying child support, and is not treating your child differently, perhaps time will be the answer and he'll get over his anger and realize you had to do that in order to take care of your child...Take care and be Safe...(smiles)

Just in case you read Spanish, I am hope this translated correctly where you understand:

Sweetie, usted tuvo que hacer lo que usted tuvo que hacer… si soy el entender su correctamente, usted tuvo que conseguir una cierta ayuda financiera vía el estado, haciendo así pues, usted tiene que dejarlo saber si usted está recibiendo ayuda financiera exterior o no. Usted tuvo que decirles que no fuera la verdad, usted. Y ahora, él está trastornado con usted porque ayuda de niño cogida para arriba con él y lo está forzando pagarle cierta cantidad de dinero su niño. Ningún se preocupa, él es triste que él está trastornado con tomar cuidado de su propio niño, pero usted no tenía ninguna opción. Usted no tenía el dinero de él, o nadie… usted necesitó la ayuda. Así pues, mientras él todavía esté pagando la ayuda de niño, y no está tratando a su niño diferentemente, quizás el tiempo será la respuesta y él conseguirá sobre su cólera y realizarle tuvo que hacer que para tomar cuidado de su cuidado de la toma del niño… y ser seguro… (las sonrisas)

Answer 4

He is probably upset because now they are taking money out of his check. Before, he probably paid and helped out with what he thought he could handle financially. What they are taking out may be more than he thinks he can afford.

All I can say as far as your being friends, is to just give him time.

Answer 5

Wow, first work on the grammar and spelling of your question and then maybe I can give you a good answer. I really can't make out what you are trying to say. Sorry.

Answer 6

Who cares if he is mad
Your child deserves support.
If he did not give it to you then you had to get it the best way you could.
If he does not like it, so what.

Answer 7

you need to correct spelling and grammar , I haven't a clue as to what your talking about re-write so your question is understandable

Answer 8

you need to repost READ what you wrote it's hard to follow