remarriage?

Question

My divorce with my wife on pure misunderstandings which she wouldnt agree to clear. eversince the divorce, my mother in law was in support of me over her daughter as she knew her daughter (ie. my wife) was unreasoanable. my ex has married a friend of mine while i am yet to marry and lonely. meanwhile over these years the affection between me and my mother in law developed into love amongst us and we went to the extent of becoming intimate. we feel comfortable to each other. and she feels i could marry her as a support to each other. should i marry or continue the intimate relationship outside the marriage?

note : at the time i lived with my wife, our relation was just that of inlaws only

Answer 1

man the both of you are dirty....if i had to choose which one is more disturbed than the other it would be her mother. piece of $hit. dont marry her mom you know it's wrong. and if you still having sex with her stop now.

Answer 2

Well I am not a psychologist, but I think that you are attracted to your ex-mother in law because she reminds you of your ex-wife. Same person just different face, for example I am very fond of my husbands brothers because they are a lot like him the way they laugh, talk, eat, even there position in how they sleep, and I only know this because they have slept on my sofa. Your wife left you, and you were very hurt by this so you turned to someone a lot like her for comfort that being your mother in-law. My advice to you is to end this and move on to someone else that has no connections to this family start a new life, move, change your job, but you really need to move on somewhere far away you will never heal as long as you are close to her family.

Answer 3

Strange. But these things happen. If you have any kids with your ex wife, I recommend to terminate this relationship at once. Find someone your own age, who is not related to you wife. If you have no children, then just consider the fact that you are making a serious commitment to someone for the second time and it may be out of loneliness, so think it through very well before you make another mistake, unless you love this woman with all your heart.

Answer 4

I can understand being lonely as I have been divorced many years.. do I believe that you should start a relationship with you mother in law.. absolutely not... these feeling that you are having for this woman are not of those of what you may have for a woman had the two of you sponatenously... you see what I am saying..
take care hun.. good luck

Answer 5

I would say do what ever you think is best. Weigh the positive with the negative. Would this sever her relationship with her daughter? Could you handle being around your ex at family functions civilly? If the 2 of you decide to get married because you believe it's for the best, do it. Stranger things have happened in families than this.

Answer 6

I believe you know the answer to your own question. What you are doing is not illegal, but it is highly immoral and amoral. You should stop this affair, and if you have children, think of them. If you don't have children, you should stop the affair anyway, because it is highly immoral. It is sad that this woman, your mother-in-law, would sleep with her own daughter's ex-husband. Of all the women in the world, you did not have to choose her. Your situation is not good, and you should correct it.

I have been divorced for five years and would not dream of getting together with a relative of my son's father.

Answer 7

I do not think that will be a good thing to do as you will be meeting your ex at all the parties and get together and it somehow does not seem too comfortable.. I feel that you should not marry her.

Answer 8

I don't think your relationship with your mother-in-law is based on love, it's come out of loneliness and lack of any other options. It doesn't sound very healthy to me, but since when do unhealthy people behave in healthy ways?

Answer 9

I first have to start off by saying ewwwww to sleeping with you ex mother-in-law. To each his own. You could be your ex wife's new step daddy and your children's grandpa.

Answer 10

Jerry Jerry