I want to catch him?
Hi There
I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend is cheating and I want to catch him in the least expensive way. but in order to prove it I either have to be there or have Pic's im my possesion. So I can't be there cause I have a baby to take care of. ANY ONE FOR POINTERS
2007-01-05 06:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by April W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i was in your position last couple of months. give him enough 'trust' and time and he will hang himself.
he will slip up sooner or later. in the meantime, do not worry yourself, put things n place for you and your baby in the event things are really as you think.
asking will only put him on guard and he will lie and be particularly careful. let him go out, etc. he will slip with a text message, a phone call, a new name, etc.
2007-01-05 06:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut!!! Is he changing his habits and behaving out of his ordinary routine? Does he become defensive when you question him, or is he sensitive and reassuring because if he isn't doing anything, he has no reason to be defensive. Are you finding that he has long periods of time that are unaccounted for?
What is different in his behavior that wasn't there when you felt
secure with the relationship? If you really want to know, pay attention to the little things.
I know how upsetting it can be to suspect something of that magnitude, and I really feel for you good luck and be true to yourself
2007-01-05 14:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes online and has a profile somewhere, create a false identity that he would find appealing and contact him. Maybe send him some racy pics so his horniness gets the better of his suspicion. When he sends you both his pics and his phone number, he's nailed. If you want more proof, with no chance of deniability, you'd need to meet him or have someone meet him.
2007-01-05 14:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by kena2mi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him now. Pictures aren't going to make any difference. But if you must have them: You can put your baby in the car and park somewhere near his house with the baby sleeping. Just sit there and wait until either they come together, or just her at the door. Snap the picture from your car and drive home.
2007-01-05 14:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you want your relationship to work you have to trust. If you can't prove that hes cheating give him the benifit of the dout till you can prove otherwise. trust me all secret eventually come out.. But if the feeling don't go away my best suggustion is to get a baby sitter borrow a friends car and check it out for yourself... Good luck
2007-01-05 14:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a gut feeling about him cheating, he's most likely a cheater.
Dump him!!!!
He is not worth the aggravation and why would you waste your time and money on a cheater. He will always be unfaithful to you. Just imagine if you too were married with children, he would tear up your family and the children will be the most who suffer.
Girl, you are too precious to be wasting yourself on him. Quit it!
2007-01-05 14:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by manna8888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that sure he's cheating on you, just break up with him. Why have all the drama and waste all of your time and energy? If you can't trust him, how can you love him? Without trust, there is no love. So that's why I would consider losing him.
2007-01-05 14:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sitter and follow his ***!! Then once you get there and catch him take pictures and run! lol
2007-01-05 14:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋