my mom has a jerk for a boyfriend and i dont want her to keep on choosing him over me and my 2 big sisters. i need some advise on how to tell her that he doesnt love her and he is trying to keep me and my sisters away from her that way he can hurt her.
2007-01-05 06:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by baby Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This Is Difficult.. I Had The Same Problem With My Mum.. And Her Boyfriend... First Of All Try Talking To Her And Explain That Its Not That You Don't Want Her To Be Happy But You Feel Like Her New Partner Is Trying To Push You And Your Sisters Out Of The Picture...Tell Other Members of The Family Or Friends And They Could Help By Talking To Her... Also You Could Ask Her For More Family Activities .. This Might Help You And Her Boyfriend Get On A Bit More. Hope I Helped x
2007-01-05 06:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by babeybabey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her just the way you told us. A lot of times, parents will try to ignore the truth and push their children away, but at the end of the day, no parent is going to choose anyone else before their kids, so just be straight up with her. She won't believe you at first, but eventually she'll come around.
2007-01-05 14:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by bjkidd27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for an adult to take advice from children. Don't tell her he doesn't love her that will only hurt her. Try to spend quality time together without him. Let her see how wonderful her children are and enjoy the time you spend together. The more time you spend with her the more she will see how important you are to her. If it continues, have a heart to heart with her about men, how they should treat you etc and let her know how you feel. I will pray it all works out for you!
2007-01-05 14:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell her to drop him you should just talk to her about and tell her that you don't want him to keep hurting her or you and your sister so just talk to her about it and let her do whats best for her but also whats best for you and your sisters!
2007-01-05 14:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~aLeShA mArIhA~*~ Love Ya!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should talk to your mom. She should place her children as a priority over a boyfriend. I mean let her know your concerns. She will listen. Shes your mom she will choose what right.
2007-01-05 14:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by blazerc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and have your sisters tell her too. but it might need more convincing to your mom.
2007-01-05 14:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't its got nothing to do with you your mother has got to wake up and do it her self , or is it that you are being selfish and need to grow up . you are a child so what would you know about love
2007-01-05 14:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by nanny boat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldn't tell yo mom..2 drop her bf......CuZ it's non of yo business...you shouldn't be digging into yo mamas life.
but you can talk to her and tell that you think that ...her bf is being a jerk .....and explain why you think that...
that's it .....this is my advice....
2007-01-05 14:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is mean to u than yes other wise its up to u
2007-01-05 14:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋