Ok, So I worked with this guy and I am a married woman but broke up with my hubby for this guy b/c he led me to belive we could be together and raise out two little ones together, etc..and we seen eachother for about 3 months and stuff and of course my husband was callinghim threatning him and all of htis other stuff and then I found out that he had been trying to hook up with enyone and everyone at work and so it was done and over with so we both moved on. So, then he gets fired for emiling all of the girls in the office and one happend to be getting married to the owner of the company and she took it to him and he fired him on the spot. Well, that is all fine and good b/c by that time me and my hubby had gotten backtogether. Ok so he keeps coming in the office and going around to talk to old friends who now hate me b/c they think I got him fired...WTF! I don't care about that but why does he keep coming in here and taunting me??
2007-01-05 05:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by bootylicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How would we know? Ask him! BTW....everything isn't always about you. Get over yourself and just be a wife to your husband and a good employee to your employer. If you wouldn't have been messing with this guy in the first place you wouldn't have to ask this question. You did it to yourself, now get over it.
2007-01-05 06:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by PDH 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
this is tough because his former love owned the company.does he bother you one on one? if so order of protection he will never be there again. if he is not do not do this to him or cause him any problems. he is a jerk/idiot. why? do they let him come back to the place he got fired? he got fired for emailing on company time. is there anyone of higher authority that you can go to? or look for a different job or transfer. I'm sorry i cant be of more help. i wish he was not involved with the boss. taunting you? what is he doing to you other than showing up? does he talk to you? since they hate you as you stated i would consider somewhere else. or talk to personnel.
2007-01-05 14:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn, you're getting all kinds of sh*t for this one. If I were you, I would consider getting another job. This guy has no business coming back to a place he got fired from. That's not supposed to be aloud. Also, learn from your mistake. Relationships with co-workers do not work. Alot of companies will terminate both employees for having a relationship.
2007-01-05 14:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. Consider yourself lucky that you idiotically didn't destroy your marriage. You have children and you are responsible for bringing them up healthy and happy - that is your RESPONSIBILITY! You are being VERY selfish and not thinking about anyone but yourself.
So consider yourself VERY lucky and don't worry about that clod. Actually you should probably get another job. Hey - why in the hell is he hanging around an office where he was fired from? That isn't allowed - at least at my company.
FP
2007-01-05 14:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unreal!
Hopefully when your husband leaves you, the woman will have more character than you do
(it would be hard to have less)
I also hope that he points to this incident to declare you as an unfit parent.
ALL of the women in your office that now hate you will make excellent witnesses!
Your child will call your husband's new wife mommy and you will deserve ever bit of it!
2007-01-05 14:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say he was doing this to all the workers, so how do you know he is talking about you getting him fired. I don't see why he would choose you to blame you say your bosses GF got him fired. If he isn't talking to you why would think he is taunting you, are you sure that is the reason that they don't like you or just imagining they don't like you. You seem awful guilty about something your not telling us, seems you would like for him to be coming to see you and your jealous he visiting other peoople.
2007-01-05 14:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because you deserve it.
I feel sorry for your husband and kids!
YOu should thank your lucky stars he took you back, if your husband had have been my brother, you would have been fired too! I hope you have gotten yourself checked out at the clinic.
IT is obvious that he made a fool out of you and was screwing many more women than you.
I guess your husband's mother must be dead, you would be unwelcome at ANY family function.
Shame on you!
2007-01-05 14:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by karen g 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not very smart for doing what you did, and I believe that you deserve to feel the shame that you feel right now, I can't believe he took you back! That guy is a weirdo and you are probably just insecure! why don't you get some professional help to learn how to love yourself and respect your marriage!
2007-01-05 14:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a strange situation indeed. Perhaps next time you won't wander away from your marriage. Take it as a lesson learned and if you have problems with your hubby...try to work it out first before straying
2007-01-05 14:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not so sure that he is coming to taunt you. Sounds like he is coming in to see as you said it old friends or perhaps his current g/f. Just hold your head up and go on you know that did not get him fired.
2007-01-05 14:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋