Last night I was with my boyfriend and his friends just hangin out but i needed to go home so i could take a shower and be ready for school today and it was already 9:30 and they were getting ready to play madden 07 and i hate that game so i was ready to go, they took me home and my boyfriend said he would be home at 11:30 and for me to unlock the door for him when he got their. Well he DIDNT come home last night and im pretty pissed i left him a note telling him how mad i am but am i just being a *****?
2007-01-05 05:46:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yep, men have small brains like ferrets and once we enter a game or a TV program with the other ferrets, we forget all about our girl ferret no matter how pretty and cool she is. It is not done to be mean, we just can only focus on one thing at a time. Plus men are competitive, so let him have his fun. he wasn't out drinking or anything like that he was with the guys. How often do you make him wait to go out? How many hours has he spent waiting on you to get back from being out with your gal pals? Cut the guy a break at least he includes you in what he is doing.
2007-01-05 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he said he was going to be home, then he should have. You probably woke up in the morning wondering where he was or if something bad happened to him on the way home. I would be mad too. Next time he should tell you honestly that he doesn't know what time he'll be home and sometimes game nights go into the wee hours of the night. If he was drinking and didn't want to drive, at least give him props for that. But - did you sleep through him trying to get in and he gave up?
2007-01-05 13:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yall live together? If so, you have a legit gripe. Does this happen a lot or is this the first time? If this is not regular behavior, give him a break. He was hangin with his boys playing madden all night. I've done the same.
2007-01-05 13:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not. I live with my boyfriend and I tell him that I expect him to come home every night. One time he did not come home and I asked him how would he feel if I did not come home. He would have been pretty pissed too. It is good you let him know how you feel. Hopefully he will read your note and you guys can talk about it.
2007-01-05 13:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by msdhoward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know boys and their games probably could not stop playing. But you have every right to be pissed when someone says they will be home at a certain time if they can't make it they should call. If you spent any time worrying about him and not getting your sleep you have every right to be very pissed. Try to talk to him and not yell at him but let him know you will not except this behavior because it is disrupting your life.
2007-01-05 13:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not being unreasonable, but cut him so slack.
YOu know where he was and who he was with so maybe he did not want to appear hen pecked.
It is not an excuse for not calling but dont get all pissed at him
do tell him that if it happens again it will seriously undermine your relationship
but let this one go.
My son was up playing madden 07 until 5am (granted he is 10) but the game apparently is pretty addictive!
2007-01-05 13:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by karen g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are dead right! If you two are living together as a couple then if either of you gives the other an ETA, then you either keep it, or make a phone call with an update. That is a totally reasonable expectation, so make sure that he understands that in no uncertain terms.
Hope he apologizes.
2007-01-05 13:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I would like to know where he was all night and next time the door would be locked and he would have to get in the best way he could (or sleep outside)
2007-01-05 13:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being unreasonable. If your boyfriend never told you when he would be home, it's fair game for him to stay out as long as he likes. But if he told you a certain time, it would only be commmon courtesy to either be there at that time, or call you to tell you he'd be late.
2007-01-05 13:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend live with you and you are still in shcool? Wow, maybe he just needs some space. He wanted to hang out with the guys. I am guessing yes you are being unreasonable.
2007-01-05 13:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by blazerc123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋