My boyfriend and I have shared residence for 7 years in Texas. We also have a one year old son. We have one vehicle, in his name, that we both rely on. Our apartment is in both of our names. He said he is leaving tonight, taking all of his stuff, and refuses to pay money on rent due today, as well as the other bills we have due. I called the police on him yesterday, and he received a ticket for pushing me. Problem for him is that in 3 weeks he goes to trial for a felony assault on an officer charge. He is refusing to pay the bills to use his money to pay his ticket, to try and keep himself out of jail. Even if he wants to leave, our child and I need a home, car, etc. I'm out of time and out of money. What do I do??????????
2007-01-05 05:40:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once, shame on you (boyfriend). Twice, shame on me (you). I hope you learned a valuable life lesson.
For money...find a sugardaddy, a sucker or get out on the street corner and peddle it.
2007-01-05 06:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can MAKE him do anything.Best thing to do is let him go. Try to find a job - or a better paying one if already employed.Ask for some help with finances,childcare,etc from those who care about you and the wellbeing of your child. I'm sure you have a supportive network of friends,fam,or a church community that can help you tie up the loose ends. Best wishes
2007-01-05 13:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start calling churches, charities, etc and tell them the situation to help you get monetary assistance. Sometimes you can callthe landlord and utility companies as well as they will give you a grace period while you get some funds.
You can't make him pay and I'm warning you now to set your life up where you won't have to depend on him for child support because you either won't ever see it or won't see it that often.
I know how much this sucks but you'll get through it. Been there myself.
2007-01-05 13:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested in your needs or the needs of his child, only his own needs. u will most likely need to get a job, and quit depending on someone who is not going to be of much help to u. he is going to use his money for himself, kinda tells u what type of man u are dealing with. go to social services, ask them for emergency help, and help getting a job, and sitter for your child. u have to stop depending on him for anything, as if he is in jail how is he going to pay u child support? u put your love and trust in someone u shouldn't have, just a walk away man, who has no character or concern for u or the child. got to really put your courage to work now, how about your parents. can they help u? as it is no disgrace to go home until u get on your feet, i have gone home many a time.
2007-01-05 14:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get court ordered child support, but there is not much else you can do. The car is his, but get his name removed from your lease.
2007-01-05 13:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a result of people living as married people but not actually being married.
Sorry. This time call a lawyer.
Next time use your head.
2007-01-05 13:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may need to go to a shelter or get help from someone at a shelter.
2007-01-05 13:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋