I have a group of friends that I thought was my "clique". We went to high school and college together. Then senior year of college something happened and they started to drift away, except for my best friend. The summer after college we mended things and we all began hanging out again the 4 of us.
A couple of months ago my best friend started dating this guy and another friend in our group started dating his best friend (best friend's boyfriend's best friend). Ever since that they have been inseperable. Now all three of them and their boyfriends hangout but they never want to hangout with me. I still invite them over and make the effort but they don't! Should I just ditch them? What do you think happened? I didn't do anything wrong!!
2007-01-05 05:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by Suki 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just wanted to let you know another detail: I HAVE a boyfriend already, I had a boyfriend way before any of them have one (we have been dating for 3 and a half years). They all have new boyfriends.
2007-01-05 05:48:49 · update #1
Some women act so stupid when they get a new man.
One of those relationships will break up soon enough (law of averages) and you will have yoru friend back.
That is if you even want her back.
Make new friends
they dont seem like they are that great anyway.
2007-01-05 05:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by karen g 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are caught up in their relationships and they all know eachother. You need to try and do things with all of them. If that doesn't work, you can remain friends, but start finding your own group to hang out with. Part of it could be they all have bf's and found this couple thing that works for them. They may feel uncomfortable if u are single and with them. Sorry to say it happens sometimes, but it will either ride its course and they will find the balance to have u in their lives or u will move on. Good luck.
2007-01-05 05:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people get older, people drift apart. If your freinds dont reconize you anymore or if you feel left out confront them. See what they say. If it doesn't work out well, then find new freinds. your still young. Some people say that you only make 5 or less FREINDS in your lifetime. Everyone else are associates. But if your THAT desparate-(last resort) get a boyreind yourself.
2007-01-05 05:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angelbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends and show to them that you do not depend on them
Chances are when they see you have other friends they will get jealous anyway and want you all to them and then you can decide weather you wanna hang out with them or not
Best of luck
2007-01-05 05:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by aoife k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have tried to keep them as your friend, they haven't lived up to there in of the friendship. get you some new friends. dump these ones. if they can't have boyfriends and still have their friends you don't need them. just go on with your life and make new Friends i know it is tough out there
2007-01-05 05:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by janiebug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find mew friends
2007-01-05 05:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy Gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋