2007-01-05 05:18:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
How did you deal with that..?
Can you forgive?
2007-01-05 05:19:28 · update #1
Emotionally alot by my mother over the years, I forgave but will not forget, We are no longer close and i moved and hour away to get away from all the drama
2007-01-05 06:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? It seems sometimes that the ones we love hurt us the most. (Lovers, spouses, kids) But if you can learn to forgive and forget, then maybe you can begin to heal. Or maybe that person is just someone you may not even need in your life at all. Tough call
2007-01-05 05:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could have forgiven my ex wife about her cheating on me while I was off fighting a war, but she lied about . I didn't help her alibi any when I showed her pictures a friend of mine took of her making out with another guy.
I think it depends on the situation. If you forgive just ask yourself can you live with what they did ? and if so will you loose trust in them and hold it over their head for the rest of the lives? If so don't stay with them because it wouldn't be fair to you or them.
I can't stand someone who cheats so I was gun shy for many years about trusting women. Just recently about 2 months ago I met the woman of my dreams and trust her 100%. It may take a while for you to get over being hurt but in my case it was worth the wait and hurt because I have found the woman for me
2007-01-05 05:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I believed time will heal everything, the first 2 months was very difficult and I even had thoughts about suicide. Luckily, I've friends who helped me pulled through the lowest point in my life.
Although sometimes I do think of the memories and I start to miss her, I guess I'm alright now.
2007-01-05 05:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jawker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was hurt before. Um...I usually make the mistake of being emotional while trying to confront...basically I will start to think irrationally. Once I step back, and clear my thoughts, then I might discuss the matter...or let it go. It depends on what happened basically.
2007-01-05 05:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was like in Jr High I fell so in love with this guys we got together we broke up after a few months inthe 7th grade, we got back together in the beginning of High School once again and then he broke up with me again, then when we were graduating i thought that we were going to get back together cause we started talking to each other more but nothing happened he ended up hooking up with one of my supposedly close friends That just hurt me so much but I still couldn't get over him anyways, I got over him years after high school
2007-01-05 05:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by JESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeatedly. Forgiving is easy. Forgetting is damn near impossible.
2007-01-05 05:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course ... and it sucks.
the problem hasn't been fixed ... too many terrible things were said to me and I can't just forgive and forget ... I am changing my number so my grandpa can't call me anymore ... he has pretty much kicked us all out of the family after my grandmas death ... so why not help move things along and loose total contact.
2007-01-05 05:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, hubby of 20 years. Forgive, never forget, never allow it to happen again.
2007-01-05 05:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Joni J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt, damn hasn't everyone??? comes with the territory!!!
Dealing with it....another matter, depends on how low the damage is... sometimes you can repair sometimes you must RUN!!!!
2007-01-05 05:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by running2adream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋