They both treat me good at times and bad at other times. One is my husband, one is my daughters father. They both want to be with myself and both want to be in my daughters life. My husband wants me to have nothing to do with her father, and my daughters father doesn't mind because he trust me; unlike my husband.
2007-01-05 05:18:37 · 24 answers · asked by beautiful_mother_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not a skank or anything, i am faitful to my husband. He had sex with 3 other woman and even told one that he was going to divorce me for her. Thats when i starting thinking maybe him and i shouldn't be together. My daughters father and I are just friends, he thought it would be best to split up because he went to prison and he didn't want to put me through all that pain. That is when i got with my husband. Now they are both in prison. You people shouldn't judge unless you know the whole situation! I HAVE NEVER cheated on my husband and never will, and I care about alot more than just my looks. Most of you people are rude!
2007-01-05 12:52:11 · update #1
Go with the one who doesnt put any conditions to having u in his life.Love doesnt come with a list of conditions. Its unconditional.Trust is important too but only when he says he can trust u in any situation not with his laid out conditions. Best of luck.
2007-01-05 07:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by di 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You committed to your husband, so what do you do with the man who didn't even get married with you before???
Of course your daughters father doesn't mind, but not because he trusts you, just because right now he has not too much choices and no rights, that it.
By your question and name here, it's very clear that you are not mature and bright person, so everybody here can already guess that you are going to be a looser pretty soon with your "daughters father."
After a few months you'll be here again asking the same question only about different man, because you love nobody, just yourself and your good for nothing "beauty."
2007-01-05 13:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your daughter's father trusts you to do what? He knows you're married, so there is no cause for him to fear you can't be trusted. Clearly, however, your husband has cause not to trust you, because you even admit that you're in love with a man other than him! Why didn't you marry your daughter's father? Maybe it was because he didn't want to marry you, or maybe you were married to him and one of you left the other. So, there must be a reason why you and he are not together. Think of that reason and hold onto it.
2007-01-05 13:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your husband doesnt trust you because you are a cheating skank .. the baby daddy is probably just coming over to tap dat *** and raid the fridge before heading back to his hovel.
I hope the 2 fellas sit down and have a beer together and realize that they can both walk away from you, pay nothing in alimony or child support and leave you to peddle your behind to strangers for food.
of course, only if there is a god would this happen
2007-01-05 13:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by phooey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a soap opera. You need to choose. Why did you get married if you still love your ex? You should stay with your husband it seems that he would like to be in your daughters life. the ex just wants to keep you hanging on because of the baby you both made together
2007-01-05 13:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you in the situation that you and the daughters father are not married?
Then you would not have a problem.
Why not take out a piece of paper and write out the pros and cons of each man.
Throw out anything that has to do with wealth or material objects and compair.
Which man has the least wrong with him in YOUR opinion.
Which has the least amount of things you want changed (which will never change).
2007-01-05 13:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU LOVE THE FATHER OF YOUR DAUGHTER BECAUSE OFTHAT AND YOU'RE LET YOURSELF MAKE IT MORE THAN THAT. YOU LEFT HIM BECUASE OF SOMETHING OR YOU WOULD STILL BE THEIR . YOUR HUSBAND SEE YOU LEAVING HIM SLOWLY AND HE IS JUST FIGHTING TO KEEP YOU. EVERYONE HAS BAD TIMES BUT YOU NEED TO STOP LOOKING AT THE GRASS ON THE OTHER SIDE BECAUSE IT MAY LOOK GOOD NOW BUT ONCE YOU GET THEIR IT GOING TO GET VERY BROWN AND YOUR GOING TO GO WHY DID I DO THIS YOU ONLY REALLY LOVE ONE AND THAT IS YOUR HUSBAND AND YOUR IN LUST WITH A DREAM WITH YOUR EX OF WHAT COULD BE SO STOP BECUASE YOUR NOT HELPING ANYONE AND YOUR DAUGHTER CAN FEEL YOUR FEELING TO NO MATTER HOW OLD SHE IS
2007-01-05 13:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did the same thing about 20 years ago. Please choose your daughters father. To this day I stayed with my husband wished I had been with my daughters father. Its just a closer unit less problems being with the natural father. Wish I could do over.
2007-01-05 13:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stay with your husband...you are a married woman. If you mess around while married, and your daughters father knows it.....how will he trust you knowing you cheated?
2007-01-05 13:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hurt both their hearts and go on to the next victim.
Love is for two, it creates 3 and 4 and 5; the extensions to their love.
No one is ever satisified anymore. They all seem to want to taste everything on the table. I care about one woman, all my love and energy is to her. My undying love. And if she gets up and leaves because she falls in love with another than I will do the same to the next woman I love. Eventually I will find the woman who just loves me as I just love her.
Lazy people, it shames me.
2007-01-05 13:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋