i believe that the double standard when it comes to the genders and sexual promiscuity is justified. Why are men called studs and women aren't? If you want to understand the answer to this perform the following experiment. Get an attractive women to go out and talk to 5 unmarried (and uninvolved) guys for 2 minutes and then have her make a blunt request for sex. Now send an attractive guy out and have him talk to 5 unmarried women for two minutes and then make a blunt request for sex. We all know what will happen in each case. You see a man has to use skill and put in a lot of work that is why is considered a stud. All the women has to do is make herself available. Now if that ever changes then I will change my mind about all of this.
2007-01-05 05:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by stark z 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And this is LGBT how?
2007-01-05 05:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This double standard was born out of ignorance and the fragile male ego and the need to feel dominant. But nowadays, we all know that guys are not the sex studs they might try to be, and women are not all prudish. Gay men get what they want when they hook up with men. Lesbians are happy with other women. This works out because of not only the natural attraction, but also because most women are too smart for men's come-ons. The guys have to work hard to get women into bed because they aren't as smart as women in this aspect. Regardless, there should be no expectation of promiscuity for either sex, nor should there be any expectations of either sex being prudish. It is simply an unfair standard which was most likely patterned after the bible, where most of our rubbish has originated.
2007-01-05 13:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may has asked this in the wrong section hun!
As lesbians as a rule tend to be more promiscus then stright women I know I got a lot before I settled down with my life partner
2007-01-05 13:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by nevergrowup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, that doesn't justify a double standard at all, it's simply a lame excuse for men to not evolve past cave men.
Grow up.
2007-01-05 13:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok on this site that does not work. Men can get men just as easily. So it seems men are the ones that are easy in either case. Sorry guys.
2007-01-05 13:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, actually most girls laugh about that,
We make getting laid look sso easy, don't we.
BUT YOU BOYS LOVE US!!!!!
You see but the REAL definition of a playa, is one who doesn't NEED game.
ANd that would be us FEMALES. But I wouldn't want to be called a "stud"
Beautifull is fine.
2007-01-05 13:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Garbage!
2007-01-05 13:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋