I have a husband who is of 50years old in love to a 30 year old and spends his time in wriitng to her, buying her gifts and spending our hard earned money on the woman.He comes to the office and spends majority of his time on Yahoo messanger and neglects his health, work, sleep.He is suffering from Cancer and Diabetics.
He meets the girl once-leaving in another country and continent and thinks all their conversations ( he does majority of the calling and writing for last 3 months) proof she is to be his wife and I budge off. He thinks that when this problem came out in the open and everyone in his entourage is against as its not possible in such a short time to be so confident of the future of the new relationship to give up a 13yr old marriage, company and go to states to leave there... I donot what to do ???
2007-01-05 04:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by LLL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forgot to mention that the Girl stays in states and will-not be leaving her country ,atleast as of now-my husband will-not be asking her-as she is studying-has her job for another 1-2years provided she passes thru-thinks and speaks of going on holidays despite knowing that the man she says she loves is having a small cancer.She likes to take holidays alone-will travel to visit my husband soon to set things out.I cannot give up without ensuring that NEVER this man if I divorce him can pain like this any other woman.
Does someone know what are the rules in USA-can someone married in another country in the world-tie knots an american in Las Vegas and if it is valid and where ???
2007-01-05 05:11:19 · update #1
Divorce his cheating *** you silly girl.
2007-01-05 04:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your turn to do some spending... get the card and max it out! Do you still love him? I mean I don't know if there is any feeling or anything left... If not tell him you are going to leave him and do it.
Chances are he is acting out rashly because he fears he is not going to live very much longer, which is stupid for him to ditch the person who has supported you through a grave illness and been with him for years... Go spoil yourself, you deserve it.
2007-01-05 13:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a new life is exactly what we need if we are no longer loved, or wanted by the person we love. he is confident and hopeful, and in feeling this way about her, he is neglecting u, and giving every ounce of his time to her. don't think the girl is quite as interested in him as he is in her. sometimes we just have to leave a hurtful situation for our own sanity, as who wants to suffer humiliation, and pain knowing the man we love doesn't love us anymore. don't leave your home and country for a man who really doesn't want u anymore. u must face reality and accept it, as painful as it is, staying with a person who loves someone else will only drag u down and rob u of what self esteem u have left.
2007-01-05 13:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce his old behind and take everything you can get from him . dont waste any time . I would have his behind in court in a new york minute . get it all leave him with nothing but the shirt on his back . good luck to you.
2007-01-05 13:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take 50% of everything he has before he goes, before the other woman gets it.
2007-01-05 12:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by smartypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce lawyer. a lawyer can file to put a hold on joint accounts so he cant spend your money on her. and then kick his cheating *** to the curb.
2007-01-05 13:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have pride woman kick his **** out!
2007-01-05 12:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋