Ok, let's say that you were with a person for 3 years and things ended because of you. Time has passed and you have come to realize that you want and need this person in your life and that you made the mistake of letting him/her go. You are in love with this person and you want to try to make things work out. Would you go back to trying or would you keep moving on? Can it happen that people realize too late about what they have done?
2007-01-05 04:45:36 · 15 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was meant to be it would have been. I dont suggest that anyone go back in time you left them for a reason and will realize that reason when you are with that person for a while and be all broken up again
2007-01-05 04:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angela C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being human is just that. Fallibility goes with the territory.Everyone makes mistakes. The trick is reconciling yourself with them and growing and gaining from them. If you are tired up in knots then put it to the person you want. If they are willing to give it another chance(sincerely) then why not?! If the person is everything you think they are, then they will probably agree and it can work out. Both parties really need to want it!! The benefit of 3 years further learning in life is a lot and the experience you both have gained during this is immeasurable and will only be positive in a new relationship provided you take note of obvious signs.Knowing where you went wrong the first time is also valuable so you won't go over the same ground and revisit any phantom issues. I hope the future is full of promise for you both. Cheers ss...
2007-01-05 14:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I ever did was take a break from my boyfriend of 4 years. We broke up for 5 months during the 5th month we realized we couldn't live without each other. It's been 1 year since we "restarted" our relationship and it's never been better. We both changed and grew up, we don't even fight anymore. I'm thankful for that break or else we may not have realized what we had.
2007-01-05 12:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by DollieDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to make a relationship and two to break it. So when you say "you" are the reason it ended, that is a point of concern. However, in answer to your question, you have a less than 5% chance of success at making it. I'm not saying it won't work, I'm just strongly implying it.
2007-01-05 12:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the old saying....if you love something set it free, if it comes back to you then it was meant to be and if it doesn't, then it isn't meant to be? or something similar to that anyways. I honestly believe that things happen for a reason and you need to as well. If it is meant to be, it will happen for you. In the mean time, (and I mean this in the nicest possible way) learn from your past mistakes. Good :Luck
2007-01-05 12:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by blueyedfaerydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can realize the mistake they have made after they broke up with that person.
2007-01-05 12:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sugar Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gone back before, and I regret it. Once you get over the person, never go back. If you're still in love, give it a shot. I wish you best of luck.
2007-01-05 12:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there done that. Of course if you like that person more than other's that your going to regret doing whatever it was you did to ruin the relationship in the first place.
2007-01-05 12:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by OnE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,why not,since you love him.BUT don't jump right in,see if this guy is still interested with you,or to start again a relationship with you,otherwise don't push yourself to him.he might see you as too needy.btw,if he never did anything to contact you for a long time,then i advice that you move on with your life,cos if he really loves you,he will find a way.and oh,BTW,i think i know you.....
2007-01-05 12:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely possible to rekindle a relationship that had ended. However, he may not want to depending on how it ended or how hurt he was. It's worth a shot.
2007-01-05 12:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋