2007-01-05 04:39:25 · 22 answers · asked by Soleil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Soleil, it would not be OK if I cheated, and would never make a female feel bad if she cheated. I would just want to know why she did it, etc.
2007-01-05 04:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a sexist statement.
Why do women not realize when they are being sexist?
In my experience women are much better at cheating than men are. I'm not talking marriage per se, but in relationship in general. I've seen/hear/read/experienced women who have a boyfriend decide to take a "break" or break up (separate) from their current relationship at the very moment when there is a new guy in the picture. Since they are on "break" or "broken up" (separated) they do what they want without being judged. Its all bull.
I see all relationships as a daily decision to stay together. My wife or I can wake up tomorrow and want out of the marriage and neither of us could stop the other, however we choose to stay together and have been married over 10 years. Marriage does not make a relationship stronger. The relationship makes the relationship stronger. We are to strong people who decided to stick it out with each other. I carry my weight and she carries her's and that is our relationship and our marriage.
2007-01-05 05:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of gender cheating is not something a decent, or confident person would do. however I will say this, woman and society in general tend to glorify the type of guys who consider themselves to be ( what they call) players, pimps and bad boys.If a guy is exciting to you because he is a "bad boy" you have to accept the good with the bad.Guys go through the same thing when they choose the bad girl over the good girl.Futhermore once someone cheats on you there shouldn't be a discussion of right or wrong, tell him it's over no 2nd chances. period!
2007-01-05 05:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a strong remnant of the past. If a woman cheats, she might be stuck with the results for 9 months, maybe much longer. If the man cheats, it can be forgotten after one night. The biological responsibility of male and female does produce a different social response. I know that is all changed with modern morals, and it sounds very unfair today.
2007-01-05 04:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not OK for anyone to cheat, if your unhappy in a relationship leave first. Guys want to be the number one stallion in the barn. Also, women tend to cheat for emotional reasons than for lust and thats more of an indication that the relationship is in trouble than just a booty call.
2007-01-05 04:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bob B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum human beings of folk who cheat comprehend very nicely that it is not ok notwithstanding they are going to arise with a hundred excuses to justify their habit. The longer they cheat the greater excuses they are going to create. For the record maximum human beings do not consciously got down to cheat (the 1st time). It incredibly occurs because of the fact they circulate limitations thinking it is nevertheless secure and until now they comprehend it it is too previous due. they are emotionally and bodily in contact. Breaking off from an affair is greater good then maximum human beings comprehend. they are truthfully bodily addicted to that man or woman and their brains are actually not working like they might desire to. it is not an excuse that makes it okay to do. yet human beings might desire to commence seeing affairs for what they are truthfully. it is likewise very actual that when you cheat as quickly because it is incredibly trouble-free to do it back. You grow to be desensitized to the "wrongness" of it.
2016-10-30 02:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that he feels bad when you cheat, and he doesn't feel bad when he cheats. I wouldn't say cheating is the absolute end of a relationship, but it sure is the beginning of the end, regardless of who was involved.
2007-01-05 04:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by tambar@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women cheat to get even, or balance things out when they feel inadequate for some reason or another ( that is probabaly all in their heads) . men cheat because women get too anal about everything and dont put out. women also cheat when fat lazy corporate schmucks never look at their wives but watch football . that falls under getting even tho
2007-01-05 04:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by tweakk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women try to make men feel like crap, but some guys just don't care. Either way, cheating is wrong.
2007-01-05 04:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never take a cheater back. If one party cheats, the relationship is over. End it, move on, and find someone who is worthy of you!
2007-01-05 04:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋