After you had 2 years relationship, yet she refused to let you know. But just to know it from a friend at the point of the ceremony. You allow the wedding to continue and she went ahead, communicating with the former husband while in your house without your knowledge.
2007-01-05 04:35:02 · 15 answers · asked by mashi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW.....doubt you will ever really know the true answer but I wonder what her plan was......are you sure she is even who she says she is? Yeah thats a marital bed to feel safe going to sleep at night in....NOT!
2007-01-05 08:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get the marriage annulled and start from scratch with her. If you've had a 2yr relationship with her that means she had just given birth when you met her! Even if she was ashamed of the circumstances surrounding her divorce, what kind of relationship do the two of you really have if she felt she couldn't trust you with that information? Are you a really judgemental type of person? Could that be the reason she was afraid to tell you? Did she run away from an abusive marriage? In any event, you need to start all over again with this new information. If you truly do love her you will find a way around what happened and build up a trust in each other.
2007-01-05 05:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by goslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my... what a sneaky witch (sorry),.... lies and deception is no way to build up a marriage. Trust is the foundation of a marriage... you guys don't have that anymore.
I suggest counseling for teh both of you., or, if you feel that you can't live like this you should then ask for an Anullment (assuming that is not too late for that) on the basis of FRAUD.
Ps/ Why is that the bad girls always get the good guys? It beats me.
Good luck
2007-01-05 04:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't know she has a daughter? I don't think you have to dump her--but you certainly shouldn't marry her. You need to call everything off--even if the guests have arrived---and tell her that you two don't really know each other and that until you do, there can be no marriage. You don't want to start your marriage off based on lies and deceit. That's no foundation on which to build.
You can still date--get some therapy-- and see what happens. This is obviously not the person you ask to marry you, so don't marry this stranger.
2007-01-05 04:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be going through with the ceremony until I had a very long talk with the bride. Even after talking to her, I still may not go through with it. I mean I have to be able to trust my new wife and after that situation I doubt that I would be able to trust her.
2007-01-05 04:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell is her daughter and why is you wife not with her? Do you really want to have children with this woman? A mother should NEVER leave her child
2007-01-05 04:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her at the alter. if you have been with someone that long and they haven't told you about their past they are not very trust worthy. i would not want a relationship like that. apparently she doesn't love you if she disrespects you like that. get a grip and move on
2007-01-05 04:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by janiebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the word WIMP mean anything to you. Grow a set of Ba**s and be a man.
2007-01-05 04:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annull the marriage. She's devious and will cause you more problems than you will know what to do with.
2007-01-05 04:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋