i love my bf dearly but their is a problem that were both afraid of. my bf is 4 1/2 erect and hes still a virgin and he wants his 1st time with me to be perfect. hes so sweet and hes the kind of guy every girl should have. i told him i have been with 3 guys that way before but my 3 prev partners were all 8 inches+ and im a lil bit afraid myself he wont be able to please me. other than sexualy hes incredible and i dont want his size to be a problem. please is their anything we can do to increase his size the quickest or anything we can try? he told me about this before we see eachother, he said hes ashamed of it and hes worried that he wont please me. please help. *****i have asked this question a few times and the previous answers were good but im going to ask it once more. and some answers i might email you asking for a lil more indepth**** thank you
2007-01-05 04:31:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
size shouldnt matter, if u said hes a great guy, then ok, wats the problem? only immature girls or women bbrag about size and all that jazz, if a finger can satisfy a woman then why not a 4 inch peni$, all that matters is that u love him... who knows, over a period of time he would get better or bigger, maybe hes scared and worried so much about what u or girls would think that hes not getin a big erection! also, a guy can have a bid peni$ and be a total jerk... also big peni$ can be painful for sex and uncomfortable, you dont want that!
2007-01-05 04:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 16:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked this same question several times and you will get the SAME answers. If you're not willing to accept an experienced woman's answer (mine), you won't find the answer you want to hear because it does not exist.
Seriously...if his size is THAT important to you, you DON'T love him because you wouldn't be making such a big deal out of it. It shows your immaturity because normal men and women don't act this way. My husband and I never did while we were dating. He is the same size as your boyfriend.
End the relationship because you are not seriously in love with the guy because you need to grow up. Love is more than the size of a guy's organ. I see it ending soon anyway because of this issue. There is too much stress involved here.
2007-01-05 04:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That IS on the small side...but then again I'd rather have my brains ****** out by a smaller man than have a boring larger man. It's like the saying that ugly people are better at sex because they have to be, because beautiful people will always have someone wanting to be with them. Kinda the same thing here. I think he'll try a lot harder knowing he has less to offer and a truly good lover is one who tries his best. Hope this helps.
2007-01-05 05:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 4 1/2 inches is rather on the petite side but as long as he can hit ur g spot which is about 2 1/2 inches up ur fine.. plus here's a tip get on top u'll feel it better.. trust me i have been with huge and big and on the small side but as long as he can satisfy u orally, penetration is just a bonus sometimes, tell him not to stress about the size just think about pleasing u and listening to the sounds u make and the breathing patern.. u can't make it grow unless u want to resort to surgery and according to my psychology of sex book the average man is 2-5 inches hard... anything over 5 anymore is a super luxory.. plus don't over think it.. it's about pleasure and ur body will tell u what to do..
good luck
2007-01-05 04:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
if your patient with him, he'll learn your body and he could make some magic happen. the size helps, but it's really all about how he works it. in my experience, i know for a fact that practice makes perfect. don't expect any miracles the first time, but maybe the third or fourth, he'll start gettin some rhythm in his swing, and his size won't matter anymore.
4.5 " is tiny though...
you can't increase a guy's size, (if you could, guys would be walkin around with monsters swingin b/wn their legs...) but you could use toys, or you could teach him to please the rest of your body while he's workin on his rabbit strokes. you can also get on top and find your happy place.
just remember that sex is between two people, he's gonna bust regardless. you should try to bust yours in the process.
2007-01-05 04:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think size is matter as you have sex with 3 guys already. You will know that the way you have an orgasm and reach your climax the goal for girl to have sex. So if he can hold his erection till you multi orgasm is the best. You had sex with a big penis why don't you dare try for a samlle one.
Good Luck.
2007-01-05 07:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that you have only been with 3 other men and they've all been 8 inches or bigger (men tend to lie) ; did you measure each one? As for your current situation, my man is big and it isn't always fun. Get some videos and experiment.
2007-01-05 04:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by yearning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see what there is to complain about you haven't even been with him yet.. For all you know he might be the best you have ever had.. I dont see what all the fuss is about with guys an big packages.. i cant handle it so i stick with my guys that are normal...
2007-01-05 06:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size doesnt really matter
2007-01-05 05:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by xshinylishuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋