what a chump?

Question

its been over two years since my last girlfriend. she left me for my roomate when i joined the military. i finished all of that and i'm just part time now. but the whole time i was waiting to go in, they were sneaking around on me. was i made out to be a chump? i feel like one, someone walked in and stole my girl, what a chump

Answer 1

Go find another girl and friend! Get over it. Don't let them rule your world.

Answer 2

first of all, if she went with your roommate, then she wasn't your girl. and no you're not a chump. But you may have a insecure streak in you though. The reason I say that is because you have to get validation from people online that you aren't a chump. Let that girl go and go get you one of them fine hot girls and live life to the fullest. Perhaps she is much happier with him, and you should feel good about that even though you can't have her. Know that there is a happy person that you know and you helped make her happy, by bringing her around your room mate in the first place. And if you take it one step further and go to him and her and sincerely tell them that you hope and pray that they are truely happy and that they stay forever together, then in the book of millions you'll be looked upon as a REAL MAN.....because doing something like that takes COURAGE.

Answer 3

if they were sneaking around then she was never really yours to begin with, you are not a chump, they were both jerks for not coming out and telling you up front.

You are better off without her- once a cheater always a cheater and you seem like a nice guy and deserve better then that. Move on - better things await you........Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

It seems to me you were taking advantage of. Sorry but you are not the "chump" they are. Your roomate was not a very good person.
You need to move on and find your self a new person. If your caring and a good heart you will find someone that will not go anywhere.
Thank yOu
for serving are country

Answer 5

Nope. They are the chumps to do that behind your back instead of sitting down like real adults and tell you they had fallen for each other. What a way to say thanks for those willing to serve our country huh? I am sorry that happened. Best way to get over it is to not let them know they got the best of you.

Answer 6

No dude, you're not a chump. Any man that moves in on another's girl is a class-A jerk. He is a total loser and so is she. Do NOT let this affect your self esteem.

You'll find someone better, friend and lover, I guarantee it.

Answer 7

You're not a chump. Realize that when someone treats you like crap it's a reflection on them, not you. I'm glad you're over it. Find a new friend, a new girl and start your life fresh. Good luck.

Answer 8

If you say you are a chump, then you are.
Do this: take one hand palm towards the sky, with the other one, chop down in your palm a few times and say this; "thing's to do, thing's to do."
F**K them both, you got things to do, keep moving.

Answer 9

If you're a chump....she's a slut, and he's an opportunist. Not that I wouldn't have ridden the train.....but I wouldn't have purchased the rail yard.

Answer 10

It's been TWO YEARS since then.... I know that it still hurts and that you didn't have time to grieve, but it;s time for you to get over it.

Don't put your self down either.... things happen for a reason and they both did you a favor .. you don;t need seanky friends or cheating girfriends anyway.

Good luck

Answer 11

A chump is someoone who get pushed around like a punk