Ok in stories, movies, and real life stories, friends say it but I don't believe it because I don't have those feelings.
I'm talking about sex. How people get so aroused and passionate and wet and ladeda, but I don't feel anything.
I am a 22yr old that has tried everything to see if I can arouse myself, no it's not fear or anxiety or whatever that's holding me back. If a guy asks me to do it with him or touches me in a sensuall way or looks at me in that way, I feel nothing! I've tried cybering, I feel nothing! So either I have no sex drive or people are lying. I tried stimulating myself and I still feel nothing, it's the same as rubbing my leg or arm.
So what's my problem? No I'm not on any pills that decrease it.
2007-01-05 04:01:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Also what's the big deal wiht a guy and a girl being alone? I don't feel that tension. Church groups talk about single virgin girls' battle against premarital sex.
Hello? I don't have any lustful feelings! Are they making a big deal out of it or do I have a medical problem?
2007-01-05 04:03:40 · update #1
I'm not attracted to girls. It grosses me out to think about being with girls.
2007-01-05 04:05:52 · update #2
It is highly unusual for a 22-year-old woman not to have sexual feelings unless she has a hormonal problem.
Do you have any other symptoms besides not being able to arouse yourself?
I would go to see your Gyn and Endocrinologist to be tested. If there's a medical problem, they will find it.
When I was 22 I had the same problem. It turned out my hormones were screwed up because I have PCOS.
Good luck. :)
2007-01-05 04:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not have yet met the man who could arouse your passionate feelings. Try not to try so hard . Just be natural. There might be an unconscious stimuli that "stops" you in reacting, or a past experience, which you can't remember, which may have cause such reaction. If you want to know whether there are medical causes , then have a medical check up.
2007-01-05 04:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have sexual arousal dysfunction. Here's a site that might help.
http://www.health.am/sex/more/female_sexual_dysfunction/
Unfortunately, I can't find that there's any real treatment for this. If I were you, I'd just keep exploring things until you find something that works for you.
I wish I could be of more help. Send me an e-mail message if you feel like talking about it some more.
2007-01-05 04:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the expression, "if 10 people tell you dead its time to fall down?" If you are not experiencing something that a great majority of people do, its time to explore why. You might consider professional help if you feel the lack, if not then enjoy life in other ways.
2007-01-05 04:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 02:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Capricorn? Certain Capricorns have a complete inability to separate sex and love; they feel NOTHING sexually unless they are in love. There is nothing wrong with that; that is their destiny and their nature.
I have been hit on by very hot guys 1000 times and felt NOTHING. I have wondered what was wrong with me. Then I fell in love. Problem solved!!
Please tell me if I'm right! I am curious if I nailed it.
2007-01-05 04:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've got a low sex drive. maybe you want to be in love with the person you give it to? cybering is crap in my opinion, so don't worry about that. some women don't know how to get themselves off, therefore they don't enjoy sex with a partner. as you get older, your libido will kick into overdrive, it's just your natural clock tellin u it's time to make some babies.
do you find yourself attractive? self-esteem is another prevalent factor in the aspects of sex.
again, it sounds like you've got a really low sex drive.
2007-01-05 04:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, learn how your body works, know where your buttons are, then you could show someone else. A woman has lots of buttons! Second, If you don't have lustful feelings, don't force them! It's the wrong person.
2007-01-05 04:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its possible 1.. you might just not have found the right guy yet..or you actually have a serious problem and you should go to the doctors about it
2007-01-05 04:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your one of the lucky ones . If I could lose this preoccupation with sex I could rule the world.
2007-01-05 04:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋